Uncorking a Story

"The day my dance instructor had her jaw wired shut to lose weight was the day I realized how deep the rabbit hole of body image issues really went. It wasn't just about being thin; it was about battling your body at war with societal expectations." - Lori Brand Welcome to a compelling episode that dives deep into the heart of how societal pressures shape our self-perception and the lengths to which people go to meet those expectations. Today, we're honored to have Lori Brand share her journey from the world of competitive bodybuilding to becoming a voice for strength and empowerment. Lori's story is a testament to the power of resilience, the importance of mental strength, and the need to redefine what it means to be fit and healthy in a society obsessed with physical appearance. Join us as Lori Brand uncovers the raw and real side of the fitness world, the beauty of finding strength in what truly matters, and how she's using her voice to challenge and change the narrative around health, fitness, and beauty. Meet Lori Brand Lori Brand is a lifting enthusiast, group fitness instructor, yoga teacher, and software quality engineer. In past lives, she’s been a gymnast, dancer, Playboy model, and bodybuilder. Her time in the body wars trenches led to her realization that getting strong, rather than shrinking, is the way out. In an effort to spread the word, she’s had articles published in STRONG Fitness Magazine, T-Nation, Inside Fitness Magazine, D’FYNE Fitness Magazine, and more. She joined me on Uncorking a Story to discuss her career and debut novel, Bodies to Die For. Key Topics: Journey to Writing: Lori shares her transition from writing for fitness magazines to penning her debut novel, "Bodies to Die For," inspired by real-life events and her desire to explore the complex dialogue surrounding body positivity. Fitness Industry Realities: Insights into the pressures and unrealistic standards within the fitness and bodybuilding industries, including Lori's personal experiences and observations. The Power of Strength: Lori emphasizes the shift from striving for societal approval through physical appearance to finding empowerment in strength, both mental and physical. Social Media's Role: A discussion on how Instagram and other social platforms amplify body image issues, and the double-edged sword of body positivity movements online. Thriller Writing: A behind-the-scenes look into Lori's process of weaving her experiences and societal critiques into a gripping thriller narrative. Mental Health and Body Image: Exploring the deep-seated psychological effects of body image struggles and the importance of mental health in the fitness conversation. Future Projects: Lori hints at her upcoming works and how she plans to continue addressing critical issues through her writing. Buy Bodies to Die For Amazon: https://amzn.to/3VjL0R1 Bookshop.org: https://bookshop.org/a/54587/9798212191234 Connect with Lori Website: https://www.loribrandwrites.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loribrandwritesandlifts TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@loribrandwritesandlifts Connect with Mike Website: https://uncorkingastory.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@uncorkingastory Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/irisyamashita/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@uncorkingastory Twitter: https://twitter.com/uncorkingastory Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/uncorkingastory If you like this episode, please share it with a friend. If you have not done so already, please rate and review Uncorking a Story on Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

"I kind of almost became an author by accident. It was a case of rediscovering a love of fiction, and then, on idle weekends, working on things purely to entertain myself. It grew from there." — Richard Roper In this episode, author Richard Roper shares insights into his unique path to becoming an author, starting from a childhood filled with a love for books but no clear ambition to write. His journey took a turn when he began working in publishing, eventually leading to the realization that he could indeed craft compelling stories of his own. Richard's candid recount of his writing journey, including the trials of rejected manuscripts and the breakthrough that led to his published works, provides an inspiring look at perseverance and the creative process. Meet Richard Roper Richard Roper is a writer and freelance book editor. He is the author of Something to Live For and When We Were Young and joined me on Uncorking a Story to talk about his career and latest book, This Disaster Loves You. Key Topics The Path to Authorship: Richard's unique journey from a love of reading and a career in publishing to becoming an established author. Overcoming Rejection: Insights into how Richard dealt with rejection from publishers and used it as motivation to improve and eventually succeed. Inspiration Behind Writing: How real-life observations and personal experiences serve as the foundation for Richard's storytelling. The Craft of Writing: The importance of structure, character development, and the blend of drama and comedy in writing compelling stories. "This Disaster Loves You": A deep dive into the inspiration, plot, and themes of Richard's latest book, focusing on love, loss, and the humorous yet poignant journey of its protagonist. Advice for Aspiring Writers: Richard shares his advice on writing with authenticity, following one's passion, and the value of persistence in the face of challenges. The Role of Music and Pop Culture: Reflections on how punk music, sitcoms, and other elements of pop culture have influenced Richard's writing style and themes. Buy This Disaster Loves You Amazon: https://amzn.to/3x3zeQm Bookshop.org: https://bookshop.org/a/54587/9780593540701 Connect with Richard Website: https://richardroperauthor.com/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/richardroper Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/richardroper/ Connect with Mike Website: https://uncorkingastory.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@uncorkingastory Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/irisyamashita/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@uncorkingastory Twitter: https://twitter.com/uncorkingastory Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/uncorkingastory If you like this episode, please share it with a friend. If you have not done so already, please rate and review Uncorking a Story on Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Join us in this intriguing episode as we dive into the creative world of Peter Malone Elliott, an award-nominated screenwriter and author of the captivating novel "Blue Ridge." From the mysterious allure of the Blue Ridge Mountains to the complex dynamics of identical twins, Peter shares the inspiration behind his debut novel and his seamless transition from screenwriting to novel writing. About Peter Malone Elliott Peter Malone Elliott is an author, screenwriter, and developmental editor who has earned a Leo Award nomination for Best Screenwriting, motion picture. Born and raised in Virginia, he now lives in Brooklyn, but still holds the magic of the mountains and Southern living near and dear to his heart. He joined me on Uncorking a Story to chat about his career and about his debut novel, BLUE RIDGE. Key Highlights: The Inspiration Behind "Blue Ridge": Discover how long hikes in Virginia's Blue Ridge Mountains and the idea of identical twins' unique relationship led to the creation of his psychological thriller. Screenwriting vs. Novel Writing: Peter discusses the challenges and liberations of moving from screenwriting to novel writing, highlighting the differences in creative expression and storytelling depth. Family Influence: Growing up with a New York Times bestselling novelist mother, writing was always in Peter's blood. He shares how this familial background shaped his path. Advice for Aspiring Authors: Peter gives practical advice on navigating the publishing world, stressing the importance of perseverance and exploring various avenues beyond traditional publishing. A Personal Touch: Reflecting on his work, Peter talks about how writing has become a therapeutic outlet for exploring themes of familial trauma and secrets. Buy Blue Ridge Amazon: https://amzn.to/3TwYVSv Bookshop.org: https://bookshop.org/a/54587/9781685124731 Connect with Peter Website: https://www.pmelliott.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/pmewriter/ Connect with Mike Website: https://uncorkingastory.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@uncorkingastory Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/irisyamashita/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@uncorkingastory Twitter: https://twitter.com/uncorkingastory Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/uncorkingastory If you like this episode, please share it with a friend. If you have not done so already, please rate and review Uncorking a Story on Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, we delve into the captivating world of Julee Balko, an author renowned for her intricate portrayal of complex female characters and her bold exploration of themes like grief, personal growth, and the transformative power of storytelling. Julee shares the journey behind her latest novel, "The Me List," a story rich with snark, heart, and an unlikely friendship that challenges societal judgments and celebrates the power of self-discovery. Meet Julee Balko Julee Balko is an author who loves writing novels with complicated women characters. She joined me on Uncorking a Story to talk about her second novel, The Me List, which is full of snark and heart as it brings to life an unlikely friendship between neighbors. Key Highlights The Genesis of a Writer: Julee traces her writing origins back to childhood, highlighting her innate passion for storytelling and the pivotal role of her early English teachers and educational choices in shaping her authorial voice. Grief as a Creative Catalyst: The profound impact of personal loss on Julee's writing, particularly how the passing of her mother inspired her first novel. This segment explores the intricate balance of weaving grief with humor to offer solace and understanding to readers navigating their own losses. The Making of "The Me List": Insights into Julee's second novel, which contrasts significantly with her first in tone but similarly engages deeply with themes of personal identity and transformation. Julee discusses the inspiration behind the book, focusing on the journey of self-improvement and empowerment against a backdrop of judgment and societal expectations. A Shift from Advertising to Authorship: Julee's transition from a career in advertising to full-time writing and how the experiences in the corporate world have influenced her storytelling and creative process. Advice to Aspiring Authors: Practical tips and motivational advice for new writers, including the importance of perseverance through rejection, the value of feedback, and the potential of social media and small publishers in getting noticed. Buy The Me List Amazon: https://amzn.to/4c4MbtB Bookshop.org: https://bookshop.org/a/54587/9781685133610 Connect with Julee Website: https://www.juleebalko.com/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/misplacedcomma2 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/juleebalko/ Goodreads: https://www.goodreads.com/author/show/21513422.Julee_Balko Connect with Mike Website: https://uncorkingastory.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@uncorkingastory Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/irisyamashita/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@uncorkingastory Twitter: https://twitter.com/uncorkingastory Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/uncorkingastory If you like this episode, please share it with a friend. If you have not done so already, please rate and review Uncorking a Story on Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

"Embracing the reckless part of me, saying 'yes' to what resonates deeply despite insecurities, has been a pivotal part of my journey. It's about integrating every piece of life into a narrative that compels not just me, but also my characters to move forward." - Gail Marlene Schwartz About Gail Marlene Schwartz Gail Marlene Schwartz is a writer living in Montpelier, Vermont. She is the author of four books and is co-editor of a forthcoming collection of essays about queer moms parenting sons. A writer who seeks and often finds humor, beauty, and meaning in the mundane, Gail writes about parenthood, identity, love, childhood, immigration, social change, health and illness, breaches and repairs, and food (always, food). She joined me on Uncorking a Story to talk about her life and latest novel, Falling Through the Night. Key Topics Early Beginnings in Writing: Gail shares a captivating story about how her journey in writing began at a very young age, using writing as a means of communication during counseling sessions. Passion for Storytelling: Her lifelong passion for storytelling, from childhood projects to her professional work, showcases her dedication to the craft. Navigating Life's Challenges: Gail discusses overcoming various personal and professional challenges, highlighting resilience and adaptability. Queer Motherhood and Mental Health: She delves into themes of queer motherhood and mental health, providing insights into her writing focus and the importance of these topics in today's society. Creative Process and Inspiration: Gail offers a glimpse into her creative process, including how her experiences shape her characters and stories. Advice for Aspiring Writers: Gail provides valuable advice for aspiring writers, emphasizing persistence, community involvement, and the joys of the writing journey. Buy Falling Through the Night Amazon: https://amzn.to/49gOzLS Bookshop.org: https://bookshop.org/a/54587/9781772584868 Connect with Gail Website: http://gailmarleneschwartz.com/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/gail_m_schwartz Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gailmarleneschwartzauthor/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/GailMarleneSchwartzauthor Connect with Mike Website: https://uncorkingastory.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@uncorkingastory Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/irisyamashita/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@uncorkingastory Twitter: https://twitter.com/uncorkingastory Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/uncorkingastory If you like this episode, please share it with a friend. If you have not done so already, please rate and review Uncorking a Story on Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Suzette Mullen is a memoir and nonfiction book coach and retreat leader. Her essays have appeared in the New York Times and Today.com, among other outlets. As a book coach, Suzette focuses on amplifying the voices of LGBTQ+ writers as she guides them to find their deeper stories and define their big ideas. She joined me on Uncorking a Story to talk about her writing career as well as her memoir, The Only Way Through is Out. Key Topics The big change Suzette made later in life that reshaped her entire world and put her on the path to living more authentically. Suzette’s work as a book coach helping LGBTQ+ memoir writers raise their voices, write their stories, and becoming published authors. How living authentically in your personal life positively impacts your professional life Tips for starting your memoir and why it is so critical to embrace vulnerability during the process. Starting over at midlife in your career, personal life, and sexuality. Buy The Only Way Through Is Out Amazon: https://amzn.to/3wetByA Bookshop.org: https://bookshop.org/a/54587/9780299345501 Connect with Suzette Website: https://www.yourstoryfinder.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/urstoryfinder/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/yourstoryfinder Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/people/Suzette-Mullen-Author/100063523689955/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/suzette-mullen-lgbtq-book-coach/ Connect with Mike Website: https://uncorkingastory.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@uncorkingastory Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/irisyamashita/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@uncorkingastory Twitter: https://twitter.com/uncorkingastory Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/uncorkingastory If you like this episode, please share it with a friend. If you have not done so already, please rate and review Uncorking a Story on Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Boo Trundle is a writer, artist, and performer whose work has appeared across various platforms and publications, including The Brooklyn Rail, McSweeney’s Internet Tendency, and NPR’s The Moth. She has released three albums of original music with Big Deal Records and joined me on Uncorking a Story to talk about her first published novel, The Daughter Ship. Key Themes Write in a way that is natural for you, not forced. Boo mentioned that the key to getting her first book published was to write the book in a way that came naturally to her, rather than trying to emulate how others write novels. She expressed that she had always attempted to write novels in a conventional manner like everyone else but eventually embraced her unique approach to storytelling. Trundle realized that by following her natural writing style, which involved exploring different perspectives and creatively navigating stories from various angles, she was able to craft a structurally inventive and one-of-a-kind book. The Daughter Ship was accepted by a publisher because of its uniqueness and how it reflected Trundle's distinct way of thinking and storytelling, ultimately leading to its publication as her first novel. Writing is a passion. Boo mentioned that she was always imaginative and immersed in fantasy from a young age. However, she gave more serious thought to writing during high school when she received feedback from an English teacher, who indicated that her writing was unique, powerful, and deserving of energy and focus. Finding support is important. Boo highlighted the significant impact of an English teacher who was described as kooky, open-minded, and encouraging. Her support and push for creativity (going “hog wild”), even amidst the challenges of using liquid white out for handwritten papers, ignited Boo’s passion for writing and exploring connections between books and personal growth. A long lasting relationship. Boo has a strong and enduring relationship with her agent who has been representing her for over twenty-five years. Boo expressed that her agent watched her progress and believed in her, understanding her as an author and appreciating her writing style—even though it took over two decades to sell one of Boo’s books to a publisher.. Working on oneself. Boo mentioned that engaging in therapy while writing her book had a significant impact on her creative process. Combining therapy with her writing allowed everything to start to hum and come together in a way that greatly enhanced her storytelling. Buy The Daughter Ship Amazon: https://amzn.to/3SGkAXE Bookshop.org: https://bookshop.org/a/54587/9780593317297 Connect with Boo Website: https://www.bootrundle.com/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@bootrundle?lang=en Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bootrundle/?hl=en Twitter: https://twitter.com/eliztrundle Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/BooTrundle/ Connect with Mike Website: https://uncorkingastory.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@uncorkingastory Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/irisyamashita/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@uncorkingastory Twitter: https://twitter.com/uncorkingastory Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/uncorkingastory If you like this episode, please share it with a friend. If you have not done so already, please rate and review Uncorking a Story on Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jared N. Michaud is a devoted fiction writer driven by a passion for writing that began before he reached age seven. Influenced by literary giants like C.S. Lewis and Orson Scott Card, he discovered the transformative power of storytelling, and at twelve he began crafting his first novel. Today, Jared writes from a little house in a little town near Cheyenne, Wyoming, where he lives with his wife and six children. As a Christian with a deep love for the truth and appreciation for the values that underlie Western civilization, he endeavors to create myths that inspire future generations. He joined me on Uncorking a Story to talk about his writing career and latest novel, Brightstar. Key Takeaways Life experiences add depth to storytelling: Jared mentioned that as a young writer, he could tell a good story, but he needed life experiences to bring value and perspective to his writing. Authors should draw from their personal experiences to enrich their stories and make them more relatable and impactful. Putting part of yourself in your characters: Jared highlighted the tendency of infusing characters with elements of oneself. By doing so, authors might create more authentic, compelling characters that resonate with readers on a deeper level. Portray universal truths: Authors can use their writing to extract truths from the world and weave them into their narratives. Jared emphasized the significance of incorporating universal truths in storytelling, creating a connection with readers that goes beyond mere entertainment. Resonate with timeless stories: Jared discussed the essence of myths in storytelling, referring to them as tales that hold timeless truths and resonate with people across generations. Authors can seek inspiration from timeless stories to craft narratives that endure and captivate audiences. Avoid being preachy: Jared cautioned against overtly preaching in fiction, emphasizing the importance of delivering a compelling story without imposing moral messages. Authors should focus on storytelling that engages readers while subtly conveying valuable insights. Personal growth through writing: Jared shared how the process of writing led to personal growth and self-discovery. Authors should be open to evolving alongside their characters and narratives, allowing the creative journey to shape not only their stories but also themselves as individuals. Buy Brightstar Amazon:https://amzn.to/492bwSP Bookshop.org: https://bookshop.org/a/54587/9781636982687 Connect with Jared Website: https://energematrice6.com/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/Energematrice6 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Energematrice6 Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/jarednmichaud/ Connect with Mike Website: https://uncorkingastory.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@uncorkingastory Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/irisyamashita/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@uncorkingastory Twitter: https://twitter.com/uncorkingastory Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/uncorkingastory If you like this episode, please share it with a friend. If you have not done so already, please rate and review Uncorking a Story on Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

"In writing, what’s really crucial is persistence. Every 'no' brings you closer to a 'yes'. And when you infuse your personal experiences into your stories, you're not just writing; you're breathing life into your characters. That's when your stories truly begin to resonate with your readers." — E.A. Aymar About E.A. Aymar Multiple Anthony Award-nominated E.A. Aymar’s essays have appeared in the Washington Post, the Washington City Paper, Publishers Weekly, and more. He is a former member of the national board of the International Thriller Writers and is an active member of Crime Writers of Color and Sisters in Crime. He joined me on Uncorking a Story to talk about his career and latest novel, When She Left, which has been called crime fiction at its best by New York Times bestseller Wendy Corsi Straub. Key Takeaways Embrace rejection as a part of the writing process and do not let it deter you from pursuing your dream. Rejection and disappointments can serve as valuable teachers, providing insights and wisdom that can help improve your writing skills. Feedback from rejection letters and conversations can provide opportunities for growth and learning, offering nuggets of wisdom that can enhance your writing abilities. It is important to be both patient and persistent. E.A. mentioned that he started writing seriously in 1997, but his first book was not published until 2015. He expressed that his path to getting published was not a common or quick one, highlighting that it often takes time and perseverance in the writing journey. Despite facing challenges, including writing multiple books that were not picked up by publishers, he eventually found an agent he enjoyed working with, leading him to the successful publication of his book "The Unrepentant" a few years later. The author reflected on the struggles he faced, emphasizing the significance of staying motivated and feeling like he was fortunate to have achieved the goal of getting one book published after experiencing setbacks along the way. Don't be defensive when receiving suggestions for improvement, such as changing the title of your book. Instead, be open to considering advice from professionals in the field who may have valuable expertise and insights to offer. Be willing to "Kill Your Darlings," meaning to let go of elements of your work that may not be the best for the overall piece. Listening to experienced individuals and being open to making changes can ultimately lead to a stronger and more successful writing outcome. Buy When She Left Amazon: https://amzn.to/3HGA73F Bookshop.org: https://bookshop.org/a/54587/9780593317297 Connect with E.A. Aymar Website: https://www.eaymarwrites.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/eaaymar/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/EAymarWriter Substack: https://eaymar.substack.com/ Connect with Mike Website: https://uncorkingastory.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@uncorkingastory Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/irisyamashita/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@uncorkingastory Twitter: https://twitter.com/uncorkingastory Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/uncorkingastory If you like this episode, please share it with a friend. If you have not done so already, please rate and review Uncorking a Story on Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dr. Vilma Luz Cabán is a dedicated educator with over 30 years experience in Westchester County, New York. She serves as an Executive Board member for the One Circle Foundation and her personal passion lies in addressing social and economic inequities. She joins me today on Uncorking a Story to discuss her career and memoir, The Heart of an Advocate. Key Themes Dr. Vilma Luz Caban delves into her memoir, "At the Heart of an Advocate," shedding light on her life’s experiences and challenges. Dr. Caban discusses her passion for addressing social and economic inequities and the ways in which she has worked to make a meaningful impact. The episode explores Dr. Caban's extensive career, which spans over thirty years in the field of education in New York. Listeners gain valuable perspective on the experiences and challenges faced by educators, particularly in the context of social and economic disparities worldwide. Buy The Heart of an Advocate Amazon: https://amzn.to/3SHoJtx Connect with Dr. Vilma Luz Caban Website: https://vilmaluzcaban.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/vilma-caban-vazquez-ed-d-89813a66/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/veelovesmath Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theheartofanadvocate/ Connect with Mike Website: https://uncorkingastory.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@uncorkingastory Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/irisyamashita/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@uncorkingastory Twitter: https://twitter.com/uncorkingastory Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/IrisYamashitaAuthor If you like this episode, please share it with a friend. If you have not done so already, please rate and review Uncorking a Story on Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Iris Yamashita is an Academy Award-nominated screenwriter for the movie Letters from Iwo Jima. She has been working in Hollywood for fifteen years developing material for both film and streaming, has taught screenwriting at UCLA, and is an advocate of women and diversity in the entertainment industry. Iris joined me on Uncorking a Story to talk about her career and latest novel, Village in the Dark. Key Themes Exploration of different points of view and empathy in writing. Overcoming self-doubt and believing in oneself as a writer. Handling rejection and the importance of perseverance in the writing field. Financial challenges and the practicalities of making a living as a writer, including the suggestion to keep one's day job. The instability and challenges of certain writing careers, such as screenwriting. The importance of marketing and promoting one's work through various channels, such as indie bookstores and online platforms. Buy Village in the Dark Amazon: https://amzn.to/47On4rj Bookshop.org: https://bookshop.org/a/54587/9780593336700 Connect with Iris Website: https://www.irisyamashita.com/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/IrisYamashita Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/IrisYamashitaAuthor Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/irisyamashita/ Connect with Mike Website: https://uncorkingastory.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@uncorkingastory Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/irisyamashita/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@uncorkingastory Twitter: https://twitter.com/uncorkingastory Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/IrisYamashitaAuthor If you like this episode, please share it with a friend. If you have not done so already, please rate and review Uncorking a Story on Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Carrie Rickert’ life-threatening accident and related complications started her down a path of examining what was, what is, and what could be. Her’s is a story of hope, of possibility, and of embracing the fight to become something new. She joins me today on uncorking a story to talk about her life and latest book, Trauma is a Catalyst. Welcome to Uncorking a Story Carrie! Key Themes Traumatic events and disappointments can serve as catalysts for making important changes in our lives, and it's crucial to view them as opportunities for growth and course correction. It's essential to slow down and find the beauty and wonder in simple things, as well as to prioritize spending time with family and loved ones, especially in the face of life-altering events. The importance of recognizing the silver lining in life struggles and seeking the lessons that negative events can teach us, with a focus on becoming better individuals as a result. The realization that traumatic events can prompt a shift in focus towards what truly matters, such as family and relationships, highlighting the significance of these aspects in our lives. The power of reaction to events that are beyond our control, and the potential for these reactions to lead to personal growth and positive changes in life. Buy Trauma is a Catalyst Amazon: https://amzn.to/4b20RJ4 Bookshop.org: https://bookshop.org/a/54587/9798887315225 Connect with Carrie Website: https://www.nomisadvisors.com/ Website: www.CarrieRickert.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/nomisadvisors/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nomisadvisors/?hl=en LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carrie-rickert-99a3738/ Threads: https://www.threads.net/@nomisadvisors Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@carrierickertauthor Connect with Mike Website: https://uncorkingastory.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@uncorkingastory Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/uncorkingastory/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@uncorkingastory Twitter: https://twitter.com/uncorkingastory Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/uncorkingastory LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/uncorking-a-story/ If you like this episode, please share it with a friend. If you have not done so already, please rate and review Uncorking a Story on Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. #TraumaAsACatalyst #PersonalGrowth #FindingMeaning #ResilienceInAdversity #FamilyFirst #SilverLinings #LifeLessons #CherishEveryMoment #PositiveChanges #InspiringStories #memoir #authorinterview #authorsofyoutube #authorsoftwitter #authorsoffacebook #authorsofinstagram #authorsoftiktok #booktok #bookstagram Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Kendra Petty is a woman who has succeeded in an all-male industry, becoming an executive vice president at two firms. She is a dynamic public speaker, powerful negotiator and dealmaker. She loves bouldering and scrambling in the mountains of California, Nevada and Arizona. A boater for many years, Kendra also loves fast cars and traveling. She joins me today on Uncorking a Story to talk about her life and memoir, “I Can’t Believe I’m Not Dead.” Key Themes A source of Healing: How writing her memoir has helped her heal from childhood abuse, dealing with a mentally ill parent, and religious trauma–and why it’s an ongoing journey. Resilience and Inner Strength: Kendra emphasizes the importance of her inner strength in helping her overcome the challenges she has faced, expressing gratitude for her ability to survive and thrive despite the traumatic experiences. Overcoming Adversity: The conversation delves into Kendra's experiences with childhood trauma and the impact it has had on her threshold for handling difficult situations. She discusses the idea that her past may have set the stage for her to endure more than she should and to accept more because of what she had been through. Motivation for Sharing her Story: Kendra highlights the driving force behind her decision to share her story, expressing the hope that her experiences and the feedback on her book have helped people in various stages and ways. She found a sense of purpose and fulfillment in knowing that her story could benefit others. Regret and Lessons Learned: The conversation touches on regret and the idea of offering advice to a younger self, with Kendra expressing that if she could go back in time, she would advise herself not to take a particular job and avoid specific decisions that had significant negative impacts. Buy I Can’t Believe I’m Not Dead Amazon:https://amzn.to/3vyUI74 Bookshop.org: https://bookshop.org/a/54587/9781952491504 Connect with Kendra Website: https://kendrapettyofficial.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/p/I-Cant-Believe-Im-Not-Dead-100090168579222/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kendrapettyofficial LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kendra-petty-0b872366/ Connect with Mike Website: https://uncorkingastory.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@uncorkingastory Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/uncorkingastory/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@uncorkingastory Twitter: https://twitter.com/uncorkingastory Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/uncorkingastory LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/uncorking-a-story/ If you like this episode, please share it with a friend. If you have not done so already, please rate and review Uncorking a Story on Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Diane Gilman found her greatest success at age sixty, when she sparked a denim revolution by designing blue jeans for real women with real bodies. She’s sold nearly nineteen million pairs of her DG2 jeans on HSN and created a sisterhood of seven hundred thousand women who feel too young to be old. She joined me on Uncorking a Story to talk about her memoir, Too Young to Be Old: How to Stay Vibrant, Visible, and Forever in Blue Jeans: 25 Secrets from TV’s Jean Queen. Key Topics Diane Gilman's Journey: Diane Gilman's life journey involves aspects such as dressing rock stars, moving to New York without a safety net, designing a product that solved a problem for millions of women worldwide, and battling cancer, reflecting the diverse and challenging experiences she has faced. Family Expectations and Personal Choice: Diane Gilman was shunned by her family for not following the expected path of marrying a nice Jewish doctor and becoming a housewife and mother like her cousin. She felt a calling to fashion from a very young age and had to make a tough choice between pursuing fashion and meeting her family's expectations, ultimately choosing fashion and becoming a successful fashion designer. Overcoming Lack of Support: The conversation also addresses the lack of support and motivation for individuals with dreams of writing a book. The podcast host acknowledges that some aspiring authors may not have the support they need and encourages them to pursue their dreams despite the odds and lack of support. Power of Persistence and Community: There is a message of persistence and the importance of finding a supportive community, such as writing groups and like-minded individuals, to motivate and push individuals to keep pursuing their goals and improve as writers. Buy Too Young to Be Old Amazon: https://amzn.to/3NYlE6s Bookshop.org: https://bookshop.org/a/54587/9781637554531 Connect with Diane Website: https://thedianegilman.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheDianeGilman Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thedianegilman/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thedianegilman Podcast: https://thedianegilman.com/podcast/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dianegilman4 Connect with Mike Website: https://uncorkingastory.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@uncorkingastory Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/uncorkingastory/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@uncorkingastory Twitter: https://twitter.com/uncorkingastory Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/uncorkingastory LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/uncorking-a-story/ If you like this episode, please share it with a friend. If you have not done so already, please rate and review Uncorking a Story on Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Allen Mendenhall is a lawyer and university administrator in Alabama who edited Southern Literary Review for over a decade. He joined me on Uncorking a Story to discuss his latest book, A Glooming Peace this Morning. Key Themes Allen’s experiences writing both fiction and non-fiction (and why non-fiction takes longer). The overlap between storytelling in the courtroom and storytelling on the page. The valuable lessons of patience and persistence Allen learned while pursuing his path to writing and publishing fiction. The inspiration behind A Glooming Peace this Morning and why he felt compelled to write something more than ‘just a story.’ Why happiness should not be an ultimate goal in life. Buy A Glooming Peace this Morning Amazon: https://amzn.to/47qRFv5 Bookshop.org: https://bookshop.org/a/54587/9781604893601 Connect with Allen Website: https://allenmendenhall.com/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/allenmendenhall Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/allen.mendenhall Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/literarylawyer/ Connect with Mike Website: https://uncorkingastory.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSvS4fuG3L1JMZeOyHvfk_g Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/uncorkingastory/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@uncorkingastory Twitter: https://twitter.com/uncorkingastory Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/uncorkingastory LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/uncorking-a-story/ If you like this episode, please share it with a friend. If you have not done so already, please rate and review Uncorking a Story on Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Writer, actor and storyteller, Don Futterman has written for a variety of publications including the Daily Beast, The San Francisco Chronicle and the Haaretz, Israel’s newspaper of record. A graduate of Brown University, Futterman is a co-host of TLV1’s The Promised Podcast, has a performance podcast of moving and hysterically funny autobiographical monologues called Futterman’s One-Man Show, and has published two children’s books. He joined me on Uncorking a Story to chat about his life, career, and latest book, Adam Unrehearsed. Key Themes Don is a natural born storyteller who has been making people laugh since he was young. One experience as a counselor at a summer camp gave him the opportunity to showcase his storytelling abilities and significantly influenced his career as a storyteller. Don’s latest novel is inspired by his own experiences growing up in New York City in the 1970s. As is often the case, art imitates life in Adam Unrehearsed. We discuss the challenges of adolescence, especially during the “middle school” years. While doing so, Don reflects on finding the humor and lessons in those experiences, even if they weren’t always positive. Buy Adam Unrehearsed Amazon: https://amzn.to/4aJh85K Bookshop.org: https://bookshop.org/a/54587/9781637589014 Connect with Don Website: https://www.donfutterman.com/ The Promised Podcast: https://tlv1.fm/podcasts/the-promised-podcast-show/ Futterman’s One Man Show Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/il/podcast/futtermans-one-man-show/id1516500063 Twitter: https://twitter.com/DonFutterman Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/don.futterman Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/donfutterman/ Connect with Mike Website: https://uncorkingastory.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSvS4fuG3L1JMZeOyHvfk_g Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/uncorkingastory/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@uncorkingastory Twitter: https://twitter.com/uncorkingastory Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/uncorkingastory LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/uncorking-a-story/ If you like this episode, please share it with a friend. If you have not done so already, please rate and review Uncorking a Story on Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Florence Reiss Kraut is a native New Yorker, raised and educated in New York City. She holds a BA in English and a Master’s in Social Work and worked for thirty years as a clinician, a family therapist, and CEO of a family service agency while writing stories and essays for publication. Florence has published personal essays for the New York Times and her fiction has appeared in journals such as The Evening Street Press, SNReview, The Westchester Review and others. She joined me on Uncorking a Story to talk about her career and latest novel, Street Corner Dreams. Key Takeaways Florence Reiss Kraut has always wanted to be a writer, fueled by her childhood experiences listening to natural storytellers in her family of immigrants. Florence pursued her interest in literature, obtaining a BA in English, and later balancing her writing with a successful career as a clinician, family therapist, and CEO of a family service agency over the course of thirty years. She dedicated herself to writing and learning through classes, workshops, and writing groups at places like Sarah Lawrence College, with a commitment to never give up on her writing. The writing process for her first book was extensive; Florence spent nine years developing the manuscript, rewriting it numerous times to perfect the intertwined family saga based on the rich character profiles she had created over years. Her first book draws heavily from her family background and experiences, incorporating elements that are directly influenced by her large immigrant Jewish family from Brooklyn, New York. After her retirement from her professional career, she managed to frame her myriad of stories into books, demonstrating that the journey to becoming a published author can be a long and iterative process, contrasting her ten-year endeavor with the quicker year and a half it took to write her second book, Street Corner Dreams. Buy Street Corner Dreams Amazon: https://amzn.to/3uWINQ4 Bookshop.org: https://bookshop.org/a/54587/9781647425913 Connect with Florence Website: www.florencereisskraut.com Twitter: https://twitter.com/frkraut Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/FlorenceReissKrautAuthor/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/florencekraut/ LinkedIn: ​​https://www.instagram.com/florencekraut/ Connect with Mike Website: https://uncorkingastory.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSvS4fuG3L1JMZeOyHvfk_g Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/uncorkingastory/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@uncorkingastory Twitter: https://twitter.com/uncorkingastory Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/uncorkingastory LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/uncorking-a-story/ If you like this episode, please share it with a friend. If you have not done so already, please rate and review Uncorking a Story on Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Joan Meyerson is an award-winning writer/director/producer of documentaries and television programs for which she won two Writers Guild of America awards. The dramatic accounts she wrote about vets and military families reconfirmed her belief that the best stories come from real life, a belief she has followed in writing. Having told the stories of others, she now tells one of her own. Her first novel, Who Needs Paris, is inspired by the two times she lived in the city of lights and she joined me on Uncorking a Story to talk all about it. Key Takeaways Joan Meyerson's transition from being a secretary to taking on creative roles within the documentary film company where she worked, initially doing tasks she was not hired for, such as writing synopses and proposals for TV series. Her experience with her second boss at the company, David Wolper—a prominent figure in television who produced the famous series called "Roots"—who encouraged her to write proposals, leading her to become known as the "Princess of writing proposals." The pivotal moment in her career when she was recognized for her talent and writing skills, which eventually led to her becoming an associate producer after writing a comprehensive outline for the documentary "Big Cats, Little Cats." The inspiration behind her latest book, "Who Needs Paris?" which was drawn from her experiences living in Paris during the 1960s and the 1970s, as well as her career in producing and writing documentaries. The structure and thematic elements of her book, which involve a back-and-forth timeline that peels back layers of the main character, Kate's, life as she deals with past experiences and embarks on a journey of personal and professional growth. Buy Who Needs Paris? Amazon: https://amzn.to/3GwyHYW Bookshop.org:https://bookshop.org/a/54587/9798985057652 Connect with Joan Website: https://www.joanmeyerson.com/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/joanmeyerson Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/joanmeyerson Connect with Mike Website: https://uncorkingastory.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSvS4fuG3L1JMZeOyHvfk_g Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/uncorkingastory/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@uncorkingastory Twitter: https://twitter.com/uncorkingastory Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/uncorkingastory LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/uncorking-a-story/ If you like this episode, please share it with a friend. If you have not done so already, please rate and review Uncorking a Story on Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Richard Deming is an award-winning poet and critic, whose work explores the intersections of literature, philosophy, and visual culture. He’s the author of five books, including Day for Night and Art of the Ordinary. Richard teaches at Yale University where he is the Director of Creative Writing and joins me today on Uncorking a Story to discuss his latest book THIS EXQUISITE LONELINESS: What Loners, Outcasts, and the Misunderstood Can Teach Us About Creativity. Key Themes Loneliness is a normal human response and not a condition that needs to be fixed; it can also fuel creativity. It is essential to strike a balance between spending time alone, which is important for self-reflection and creative processes, and seeking social connections for support. We are inherently born into loneliness, and there is a persistent desire to find a sense of belonging which can be a driving force in our lives and creativity. Loneliness can be experienced by anyone, even those in long marriages, indicating it's not just about being physically alone. It's not the mere presence of others that prevents loneliness, but the depth and intimacy of connections with others that alleviate feelings of loneliness. Buy This Exquisite Loneliness: What Loners, Outcasts, and the Misunderstood Can Teach Us About Creativity Amazon: https://amzn.to/3tBIZnf Bookshop.org: https://bookshop.org/a/54587/9780593492512 Connect With Richard Website: https://english.yale.edu/people/adjunct-professors-and-senior-lecturers-full-part-time-lecturers-creative-writers-officers Connect with Mike Website: https://uncorkingastory.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSvS4fuG3L1JMZeOyHvfk_g Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/uncorkingastory/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@uncorkingastory Twitter: https://twitter.com/uncorkingastory Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/uncorkingastory LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/uncorking-a-story/ If you like this episode, please share it with a friend. If you have not done so already, please rate and review Uncorking a Story on Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Peggy Townsend is an award-winning journalist who has panhandled with street kids, taken to the skies with pararescuers, and once chased an escaped murderer through a graveyard at midnight. Her first mystery, "See Her Run," was listed as one of "13 Thrillers to Keep You Up at Night" by Kirkus Reviews. Her second book "The Thin Edge," was called "an outstanding" novel by The Associated Press. She joined me on uncorking a story to discuss her career and latest novel, The Beautiful and the Wild. Key Takeaways Embracing Change: Peggy teaches us the beauty of embracing change, whether that’s a new career path or a new genre of writing. The Power of Persistence: As Peggy's journey demonstrates, perseverance is the name of the game—one that every author must play and embrace wholeheartedly. The Power of Mentorship: The role of mentors cannot be understated. Peggy’s transformational learning experience with her mentor shows us the invaluable impact of guidance on an author's craft. Empathy in Storytelling: Peggy’s experiences highlight the deep connection between empathy and storytelling, reminding us to step into the shoes of others in our writing. The Value of Taking Risks: Through Peggy’s narrative, we are encouraged to take leaps of faith into the unknown. Her transition into fiction writing is a brilliant reminder of the wonders that await when we dare to explore. Buy The Beautiful and the Wild Amazon: https://amzn.to/3MTyJh2 Bookshop.org:https://bookshop.org/a/54587/9780593638088 Connect with Peggy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/peggytownsendwriter/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/peggytownsend Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/peggytownsendbooks/ Connect with Mike Website: https://uncorkingastory.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSvS4fuG3L1JMZeOyHvfk_g Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/uncorkingastory/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@uncorkingastory Twitter: https://twitter.com/uncorkingastory Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/uncorkingastory LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/uncorking-a-story/ If you like this episode, please share it with a friend. If you have not done so already, please rate and review Uncorking a Story on Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices