Lead A New Future with Kate Ruby Aroha

This is an important conversation about paying attention to the cues and signals that you’re getting to take a new direction OR evolve things forward. When we DONT listen to these cues (which might be because we’re not hearing them correctly, or misinterpreting them as something else), then we dont make the change needed, and we can get a bit stuck. I hope you get lots out of this conversation! Feel free to share with me what you’re hearing in it…. I use my platforms to talk about stuff that matters through a lens of leadership. The leadership I stand for is one that values a culture of fairness and transparency, while giving us access to our ability to effect change personally or professionally, big or small. Expect a variety of conversations here. Instagram: www.instagram.com/katerubyaroha Website: https://www.katerubyaroha.com THE ONE is a 2 day experience that develops leadership. Details (including locations & dates) over at www.theoneliveevent.com MENTORING & COACHING: I work privately with leaders who’re making a difference in the world. For info (including client testimonials), refer to the pinned post on my Instagram www.instagram.com/katerubyaroha

This is alot more common than you might think, and could very well be the reason why you're overstretched (with too many balls in the air. In this conversation I talk about this (all too common) dynamic, what it is, and the space from which to shift it. On the other side of these particular shifts, whats possible is more spaciousness, more mental bandwidth, and people around us who are growing. There's also greater results available to us. The more we free up our mental load, the more we are able to apply the best parts of ourselves to things that truly matter (rather than having our bandwidth being chewed up across 'all the things'). I hope you get something out of this conversation. I use my platforms to talk about stuff that matters through a lens of leadership. The leadership I stand for is one that values a culture of fairness and transparency, while giving us access to our ability to effect change personally or professionally, big or small. Expect a variety of conversations here. Instagram: www.instagram.com/katerubyaroha Website: https://www.katerubyaroha.com THE ONE is a 2 day experience that develops leadership. Details (including locations & dates) over at www.theoneliveevent.com MENTORING & COACHING: I work privately with leaders who’re making a difference in the world. For info (including client testimonials), refer to the pinned post on my Instagram www.instagram.com/katerubyaroha

In this podcast episode, I share my experiences and insights on achieving ambitious goals without burnout. I emphasize the importance of recovery, maintaining clear work-life boundaries, and adopting new levels of thinking to solve bigger problems and achieve significant benefits. At 00:02:16, I explained my decision to frontload all major sales and launches at the beginning of the year, highlighting the reasons behind this unconventional approach and its impact on my thinking and processes. At 00:07:53, I explored the necessity of approaching challenges with new thinking and reorganizing processes to achieve ambitious goals, emphasizing the growth potential and expanded capacity through this approach. At 00:24:33, I shared my experience of committing to bigger challenges, leading to the resolution of previous issues and the attainment of bigger results. At 00:25:36, I reflected on the astounding financial results and personal lessons learned from my new decision-making and commitment to bigger goals. My journey to nearly half a million dollars in sales is more than a personal milestone; it's a beacon for anyone seeking to accelerate their results in life and business. Remember, the path to greatness is paved with bold decisions, intentional rest, and an ever-evolving mindset. I use my platforms to talk about stuff that matters through a lens of leadership. The leadership I stand for is one that values a culture of fairness and transparency, while giving us access to our ability to effect change personally or professionally, big or small. Expect a variety of conversations here. Instagram: www.instagram.com/katerubyaroha Website: https://www.katerubyaroha.com THE ONE is a 2 day experience that develops leadership. Details (including locations & dates) over at www.theoneliveevent.com MENTORING & COACHING: I work privately with leaders who’re making a difference in the world. For info (including client testimonials), refer to the pinned post on my Instagram www.instagram.com/katerubyaroha

This is a multi layered conversation. Here I discuss…. I use my platforms to talk about stuff that matters through a lens of leadership. The leadership I stand for is one that values a culture of fairness and transparency, while giving us access to our ability to effect change personally or professionally, big or small. Expect a variety of conversations here. Instagram: www.instagram.com/katerubyaroha Website: https://www.katerubyaroha.com THE ONE is a 2 day experience that develops leadership. Details (including locations & dates) over at www.theoneliveevent.com MENTORING & COACHING: I work privately with leaders who’re making a difference in the world. For info (including client testimonials), refer to the pinned post on my Instagram www.instagram.com/katerubyaroha

After 18 years, we decided to END the relationship we had, take an intentional break (I describe in this conversation what that meant for us specifically), and then, when we were ready, we opened up a NEW marriage. I hadn't intended on sharing in this level of depth, however given how incredible the results of this process we did have been, I figure that it might help for someone else to hear what we did. And so, here it is… I use my platforms to talk about stuff that matters through my personal lens of leadership. The leadership I stand for is one that values a culture of fairness and transparency, while giving us access to our ability to effect change personally or professionally, big or small. Expect a variety of conversations here. Instagram: www.instagram.com/katerubyaroha Website: https://www.katerubyaroha.com THE ONE is a 3 day experience that develops leadership. Details (including locations & dates) over at www.theoneliveevent.com MENTORING & COACHING: I work privately with leaders who’re making a difference in the world. For info (including client testimonials), refer to the pinned post on my Instagram www.instagram.com/katerubyaroha

I use my platforms to talk about stuff that matters through my personal lens of leadership. The leadership I stand for is one that values a culture of fairness and transparency, while giving us access to our ability to effect change personally or professionally, big or small. Expect a variety of conversations here. Instagram: www.instagram.com/katerubyaroha Website: https://www.katerubyaroha.com THE ONE is a 3 day experience that develops leadership. Details (including locations & dates) over at www.theoneliveevent.com MENTORING & COACHING: I work privately with leaders who’re making a difference in the world. For info (including client testimonials), refer to the pinned post on my Instagram www.instagram.com/katerubyaroha

This is possibly the biggest conversation I’ve had on the podcast to date. Here we’re going to be creating what I call the Leadership Capacity Continuum. It represents all of the leadership development work I do and helps to distinguish the multiple levels that we work on. It will be massively useful, regardless of where you’re at with your leadership We talk about… I use my platforms to talk about stuff that matters through my personal lens of leadership. The leadership I stand for is one that values a culture of fairness and transparency, while giving us access to our ability to effect change personally or professionally, big or small. Expect a variety of conversations here. Instagram: www.instagram.com/katerubyaroha Website: https://www.katerubyaroha.com THE ONE is a 3 day experience that develops leadership. Details (including locations & dates) over at www.theoneliveevent.com MENTORING & COACHING: I work privately with leaders who’re making a difference in the world. For info (including client testimonials), refer to the pinned post on my Instagram www.instagram.com/katerubyaroha

I recorded this as a one off conversation, with the intention that it's useful. As well as sharing the details of what happened, I also talk about.... Moments of insightWhat I mean by 'one spoon at a time'What someone needs from us What we need from ourselvesBeing compassionate to ourselvesLearning to forgive myselfIm thinking this could be useful to listen to if you're experiencing a darker moment in your life (whatever the context), or if someone you love is going through a darker time. If you know someone who would find this useful to listen to, please share it with them. I use my platforms to talk about stuff that matters through a lens of leadership. The leadership I stand for is one that values a culture of fairness and transparency, while giving us access to our ability to effect change personally or professionally, big or small. Expect a variety of conversations here. Instagram: www.instagram.com/katerubyaroha Website: https://www.katerubyaroha.com THE ONE is a 2 day experience that develops leadership. Details (including locations & dates) over at www.theoneliveevent.com MENTORING & COACHING: I work privately with leaders who’re making a difference in the world. For info (including client testimonials), refer to the pinned post on my Instagram www.instagram.com/katerubyaroha

When we’re with someone a lot, there’s a natural transfer of energy and conversation backwards and forwards between each other. However, is this always useful? Or can it creep into areas of not being useful. When that ‘creep’ is subtle over time (as it is in longer term relationships or friendships), we don’t see it, we just experience the impacts. Henare and I had a realisation recently about this, and we came up with a simple way in which we’re learning to be more intentional of protecting each other’s mental space. I thought Id share it here for anyone who would find it useful… I use my platforms to talk about stuff that matters through my personal lens of leadership. The leadership I stand for is one that values a culture of fairness and transparency, while giving us access to our ability to effect change personally or professionally, big or small. Expect a variety of conversations here. Instagram: www.instagram.com/katerubyaroha Website: https://www.katerubyaroha.com THE ONE is a 3 day experience that develops leadership. Details (including locations & dates) over at www.theoneliveevent.com MENTORING & COACHING: I work privately with leaders who’re making a difference in the world. For info (including client testimonials), refer to the pinned post on my Instagram www.instagram.com/katerubyaroha

This is part two of a bigger conversation. Here I share my thoughts on creating new pathways forward, versus getting stuck at levels that are simply unworkable. Here I have a lot to say around unhealthy, self-sacrifice versus healthy thriving leadership… And what becomes available when we value the latter. Also, this is a bigger conversation around using the moments where we feel squeezed, or simply frustrated, to pop into new levels of thinking. Rather than, what can often happen, which is seeing stuckness rather than solution. I hope you find this useful… I use my platforms to talk about stuff that matters through a lens of leadership. The leadership I stand for is one that values a culture of fairness and transparency, while giving us access to our ability to effect change personally or professionally, big or small. Expect a variety of conversations here. Instagram: www.instagram.com/katerubyaroha Website: https://www.katerubyaroha.com THE ONE is a 2 day experience that develops leadership. Details (including locations & dates) over at www.theoneliveevent.com MENTORING & COACHING: I work privately with leaders who’re making a difference in the world. For info (including client testimonials), refer to the pinned post on my Instagram www.instagram.com/katerubyaroha

Its finally time to share all of this including what happened leading up to our last event, in particular what we did in the backend that no one knew. I also have a lot to say about the personal development industry, plus some of our experiences over the last few years that brought us where we are now, and moving forward… I use my platforms to talk about stuff that matters through a lens of leadership. The leadership I stand for is one that values a culture of fairness and transparency, while giving us access to our ability to effect change personally or professionally, big or small. Expect a variety of conversations here. Instagram: www.instagram.com/katerubyaroha Website: https://www.katerubyaroha.com THE ONE is a 2 day experience that develops leadership. Details (including locations & dates) over at www.theoneliveevent.com MENTORING & COACHING: I work privately with leaders who’re making a difference in the world. For info (including client testimonials), refer to the pinned post on my Instagram www.instagram.com/katerubyaroha

In this conversation I unpack some stuff around a private message I received on social media. There’s some key distinctions I want to draw here around… I use my platforms to talk about stuff that matters through a lens of leadership. The leadership I stand for is one that values a culture of fairness and transparency, while giving us access to our ability to effect change personally or professionally, big or small. Expect a variety of conversations here. Instagram: www.instagram.com/katerubyaroha Website: https://www.katerubyaroha.com THE ONE is a 2 day experience that develops leadership. Details (including locations & dates) over at www.theoneliveevent.com MENTORING & COACHING: I work privately with leaders who’re making a difference in the world. For info (including client testimonials), refer to the pinned post on my Instagram www.instagram.com/katerubyaroha

Henare and I are ending our marriage together in order to make space for something even more special. In this conversation, I'm sharing about this, as well as some comments around long-term relationships. I use my platforms to talk about stuff that matters through a lens of leadership. The leadership I stand for is one that values a culture of fairness and transparency, while giving us access to our ability to effect change personally or professionally, big or small. Expect a variety of conversations here. Instagram: www.instagram.com/katerubyaroha Website: https://www.katerubyaroha.com THE ONE is a 2 day experience that develops leadership. Details (including locations & dates) over at www.theoneliveevent.com MENTORING & COACHING: I work privately with leaders who’re making a difference in the world. For info (including client testimonials), refer to the pinned post on my Instagram www.instagram.com/katerubyaroha

Are our men being catered for in the growth space? Are men actually way more vulnerable than we realise? Whats being provided so that we’re ALL thriving? It matters that we as women are growing, and becoming stronger and stronger within ourselves. Time and time however, there’s a growth gap felt in relationships where the woman out paces her partner in growth. The answer is not to hold ourselves back as women. The answer is to provide opportunities where we can BOTH be in the conversation. Which is exactly what Henare and I are doing… I use my platforms to talk about stuff that matters through a lens of leadership. The leadership I stand for is one that values a culture of fairness and transparency, while giving us access to our ability to effect change personally or professionally, big or small. Expect a variety of conversations here. Instagram: www.instagram.com/katerubyaroha Website: https://www.katerubyaroha.com THE ONE is a 2 day experience that develops leadership. Details (including locations & dates) over at www.theoneliveevent.com MENTORING & COACHING: I work privately with leaders who’re making a difference in the world. For info (including client testimonials), refer to the pinned post on my Instagram www.instagram.com/katerubyaroha

Ready for part 2 of ‘freeing up your mental bandwidth’?! Today I want to share with you some things I've figured out over time, that have made a big impact, including… I use my platforms to talk about stuff that matters through a lens of leadership. The leadership I stand for is one that values a culture of fairness and transparency, while giving us access to our ability to effect change personally or professionally, big or small. Expect a variety of conversations here. Instagram: www.instagram.com/katerubyaroha Website: https://www.katerubyaroha.com THE ONE is a 2 day experience that develops leadership. Details (including locations & dates) over at www.theoneliveevent.com MENTORING & COACHING: I work privately with leaders who’re making a difference in the world. For info (including client testimonials), refer to the pinned post on my Instagram www.instagram.com/katerubyaroha

Want to free up your mental bandwidth? Listen to this episode. We’re talking about: In NEXT week’s episode, we’re going to extend this conversation into a very different way to protect our mental bandwidth. I use my platforms to talk about stuff that matters through a lens of leadership. The leadership I stand for is one that values a culture of fairness and transparency, while giving us access to our ability to effect change personally or professionally, big or small. Expect a variety of conversations here. Instagram: www.instagram.com/katerubyaroha Website: https://www.katerubyaroha.com THE ONE is a 2 day experience that develops leadership. Details (including locations & dates) over at www.theoneliveevent.com MENTORING & COACHING: I work privately with leaders who’re making a difference in the world. For info (including client testimonials), refer to the pinned post on my Instagram www.instagram.com/katerubyaroha

THINGS TALKED ABOUT: I use my platforms to talk about stuff that matters through a lens of leadership. The leadership I stand for is one that values a culture of fairness and transparency, while giving us access to our ability to effect change personally or professionally, big or small. Expect a variety of conversations here. Instagram: www.instagram.com/katerubyaroha Website: https://www.katerubyaroha.com THE ONE is a 2 day experience that develops leadership. Details (including locations & dates) over at www.theoneliveevent.com MENTORING & COACHING: I work privately with leaders who’re making a difference in the world. For info (including client testimonials), refer to the pinned post on my Instagram www.instagram.com/katerubyaroha

In today’s conversation we talk about: I use my platforms to talk about stuff that matters through a lens of leadership. The leadership I stand for is one that values a culture of fairness and transparency, while giving us access to our ability to effect change personally or professionally, big or small. Expect a variety of conversations here. Instagram: www.instagram.com/katerubyaroha Website: https://www.katerubyaroha.com THE ONE is a 2 day experience that develops leadership. Details (including locations & dates) over at www.theoneliveevent.com MENTORING & COACHING: I work privately with leaders who’re making a difference in the world. For info (including client testimonials), refer to the pinned post on my Instagram www.instagram.com/katerubyaroha

This is a big permission slip for anyone who needs to hear it, that you’re absolutely allowed to evolve forward from things that are no longer meeting you…. In this conversation we talk about: I use my platforms to talk about stuff that matters through a lens of leadership. The leadership I stand for is one that values a culture of fairness and transparency, while giving us access to our ability to effect change personally or professionally, big or small. Expect a variety of conversations here. Instagram: www.instagram.com/katerubyaroha Website: https://www.katerubyaroha.com THE ONE is a 2 day experience that develops leadership. Details (including locations & dates) over at www.theoneliveevent.com MENTORING & COACHING: I work privately with leaders who’re making a difference in the world. For info (including client testimonials), refer to the pinned post on my Instagram www.instagram.com/katerubyaroha

If you’ve got people in your spaces that’re behaving in icky ways. Then this conversation is a must to listen to… I use my platforms to talk about stuff that matters through a lens of leadership. The leadership I stand for is one that values a culture of fairness and transparency, while giving us access to our ability to effect change personally or professionally, big or small. Expect a variety of conversations here. Instagram: www.instagram.com/katerubyaroha Website: https://www.katerubyaroha.com THE ONE is a 2 day experience that develops leadership. Details (including locations & dates) over at www.theoneliveevent.com MENTORING & COACHING: I work privately with leaders who’re making a difference in the world. For info (including client testimonials), refer to the pinned post on my Instagram www.instagram.com/katerubyaroha