Purpose Beyond Motherhood - Finding Your God-Given Purpose Beyond Infertility And Motherhood

We’re excited to introduce today’s guest to you! With twenty-four years in human resources and corporate employee benefits, Jenny Smith served as an associate faculty member for the National Alliance for Insurance Education & Research, for whom she presented nationally. She has a Bachelor of Science in Psychology from the University of California, Davis, where she remains active in her Phi Beta Kappa alumni chapter. In 2018, she co-authored a technical human resource textbook, but in 2021, God called Jenny to the new adventure of publishing a memoir called Natty’s Pond. Obedient to write this raw and honest story of redemption after a medically advised abortion, she experienced deep healing during the process through her savior, Jesus Christ. Little did she know, the Lord would expand her calling to include starting an abortion healing ministry in Texas called LovedMuch. Based on Luke 7:47, she and ministry partner Melissa Carney are helping women find freedom from silence and shame related to past abortion trauma. We know this episode will bring hope and healing to others who have walked a similar path. Episode Highlights: Links Mentioned in Episode/Find More on Purpose Beyond Motherhood and : Twelve 12 Ministries Website@twelve12ministries@twelve12ministriesinfo@twelve12ministries.orgTwelve 12 Ministries ShopNatty’s PondHereVisit Jenny’s Website HereLovedMuch This show has been produced by Adkins Media Co.

BonnieRuth is a pastor, speaker, and podcaster. She has been married to her husband, Jason, for 22 years. The couple’s story has been marked with the pain and disappointment of infertility and multiple miscarriages. Due to continued health issues, she underwent a hysterectomy in 2020, carving an unplanned path of childlessness for her and Jason. Despite the hurt and trials, this experience has birthed within her a passion to be a voice and advocate of hope for those who have walked a similar path. Together, Jason and BonnieRuth are the founders of an organization called "Legacy Place" - a ministry dedicated to supporting couples as they navigate the many layers and difficulties of infertility, miscarriage, and childlessness. At their core, they aim to see couples find hope and joy alongside each other as they redefine their legacy. They offer one-day events, one-on-one mentorship, and will soon have cabins on their 48 acres in Bonham, TX, for couples to come and stay to rest, reconnect, and refocus. BonnieRuth strongly believes that no matter the barren places in our lives, we do not have to live broken. Join us today as we discuss the aspects of legacy, navigating tough conversations, and establishing healthy boundaries on the journey through infertility and loss. Episode Highlights: Links Mentioned in Episode/Find More on Purpose Beyond Motherhood and BonnieRuth: Listen to the Barren Not Broken Podcast HereFollow Legacy Place Retreat on IG: @legacyplaceretreatFollow Legacy Place Retreat on FacebookVisit Legacy Place Retreat’s WebsiteEmail: info@legacyplaceretreat.com This show has been produced by Adkins Media Co.

Whatever you are facing, whatever part of this journey of infertility or loss you are on, God sees you. He loves you, and He not only walks you through the valley to the mountaintop, but He sits with you in the depths of your despair as He strengthens you. His power is made perfect in our weakness. [2 Corinthians 12:9] After serving in ministry for 13 years at Gateway Church in Southlake, TX, Preston, his wife Holly, and their three kids were sent out to Scottsdale, AZ to plant a church and fulfill the dream God put in his heart nearly two decades earlier. Preston has a gift of communicating truth in a transformative way that awakens people's hearts to the insatiable, overwhelming, undeserving love of the Father. Today, he joins us to discuss the heart of God towards His daughters. It's no secret that within the church community, even those with the best intentions can inadvertently inflict wounds during our trials of infertility and loss. Their words, often unintentionally, carve into the tender places of our souls, leaving behind burdens of shame we were never meant to bear. Today, as Preston speaks, let his words become a beacon of hope, piercing through the darkness of any shame you've carried. May the boundless love of God saturate this message, breaking down every barrier and healing every hurt within your heart. Know this: You are not walking this journey alone. In the midst of your pain, God sees you. We see you. And fiercely, unconditionally, you are loved. Episode Highlights: Links Mentioned in Episode/Find More on Purpose Beyond Motherhood and : Twelve 12 Ministries Website@twelve12ministries@twelve12ministriesinfo@twelve12ministries.orgTwelve 12 Ministries ShopPillar Church Scottsdale’s WebsiteThe Leader’s Cut PodcastThis show has been produced by Adkins Media Co.

Welcome back, friends! We have an encouraging episode to share with you today! As a pastor’s kid, Elaine Fisher always had an awareness of the Lord but didn’t develop a personal relationship with Him until she hit rock bottom at 19 years old. For over a decade, she has been traveling and speaking at churches and conferences, sharing her story and teaching truths from the Bible that she has learned along the way. Her authentic way of communicating is encouraging and inspiring. She and her husband, Ethan, and their four children moved to the Houston area in 2019 to start Gateway Church. She currently serves on staff overseeing the Ministries Team and as a Teaching Pastor. Elaine is passionate about equipping and encouraging her generation and has a desire to see lives changed. In our conversation, Elaine shares about how we can arm ourselves with the Word and face each storm with courage as we look to Jesus for our strength. Listen in and be encouraged as Elaine speaks truth over your life today! Episode Highlights: Links Mentioned in Episode/Find More on Purpose Beyond Motherhood and : Twelve 12 Ministries Website@twelve12ministries@twelve12ministriesinfo@twelve12ministries.orgTwelve 12 Ministries ShopHereThis show has been produced by Adkins Media Co.

Hey Friends! With Christmas coming up next week, we wanted to share a little bonus episode with you. Think of it as our gift to you! In this episode, we’re talking about all things IVF. As someone who has walked through IVF herself, Holly is sharing about her experience - the things she wishes she would have known, the things she learned, and everything in between. No matter where you are in your journey, we hope that this episode will stand as a reminder that how you choose to walk through this is between you, God, and your spouse. You get to choose who you tell, how much you tell, and what parts of this journey you keep to yourselves. We are praying for you, friends. We see you, and you are not alone in this. God has a good plan for you, and nothing is wasted. Thank you for letting us be a part of your journey. We pray that you will have a blessed and Merry Christmas! “And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.” Romans 8:28 Episode Highlights: Links Mentioned in Episode/Find More on Purpose Beyond Motherhood and : Twelve 12 Ministries Website@twelve12ministries@twelve12ministriesinfo@twelve12ministries.orgTwelve 12 Ministries ShopThis show has been produced by Adkins Media Co.

Today, we invite you to meet Vanessa Grant. Vanessa is a wife and mother of two. For the first time publicly, she shares her story with us of faith and hope amidst the pain of loss. At Vanessa’s 10 week appointment in her second pregnancy, the ultrasound revealed that she was carrying twins. As the doctor assessed the ultrasound, Vanessa could sense that something was off. Her doctor informed her that she was carrying monoamniotic twins, meaning they were identical, and sharing the same amniotic sac & placenta. Monoamniotic Twins, or MoMo Twins, are extremely rare, making up less than 1% of all births in the United States. This meant that Vanessa and her babies would need to be monitored closely. It became difficult to find a doctor that was comfortable treating her due to the rarity of this condition. This was only the beginning of what would be a long and rocky road. Over the next 8 weeks, Vanessa and her husband would face challenging decisions that no parents should ever face. At 18 weeks, she received the devastating news that she had lost both of her babies and would have to deliver them. Throughout her journey, Vanessa remained steadfast in her faith and leaned on God for strength. She shares with us today how she found hope in the most difficult time of her life. Vanessa’s story is powerful and inspiring, and we are honored to share it with you today. Episode Highlights: Links Mentioned in Episode/Find More on Purpose Beyond Motherhood and : Twelve 12 Ministries Website@twelve12ministries@twelve12ministriesinfo@twelve12ministries.orgTwelve 12 Ministries ShopThis show has been produced by Adkins Media Co.

Caitlin Estes is the Owner and Certified FertilityCare Practitioner at Woven Natural Fertility Care. After completing her Master of Divinity degree, God opened her eyes to women’s needs in the area of fertility. She began supporting women in 2017 and soon achieved the highest level of training in her field as a Certified FertilityCare Practitioner. She's passionate about women’s health and God’s presence in it. Like you, Caitlin believes that each woman deserves to understand her body and her fertility and to be honored and respected in the process. When she’s not working with women, you can find her reading a good book, hiking with her husband and dog, or learning pickleball. Please join us in listening to this enlightening conversation with Caitlin about the Creighton Method and God’s complex creation. Episode Highlights: Links Mentioned in Episode/Find More on Purpose Beyond Motherhood and Caitlin Estes: Twelve 12 Ministries Website@twelve12ministries@twelve12ministriesinfo@twelve12ministries.orgTwelve 12 Ministries ShopVisit Woven Fertility’s WebsiteWoven Well PodcastFind the Woven Well Podcast on InstagramFind Woven Fertility on InstagramThis show has been produced by Adkins Media Co.

“Occasionally weep deeply over the life you hoped would be. Grieve the losses. Then wash your face. Trust God and embrace the life you have.” - John Piper Today’s guest, Lisa Robertson is sharing her beautiful redemption story with us. Lisa lives in Ohio with her husband, biological daughter, and 3 adopted sons. She is the Executive Director of Hope Bridge, and organization that aids single moms, foster care & adoption, and aging out youth. It’s apparent to see how God was preparing Lisa throughout her journey to step into her role at Hope Bridge. After getting pregnant early in her marriage and ending up having an emergency hysterectomy just days after giving birth to her daughter, the life Lisa thought she would have now seemed impossible. During recovery, she was faced with the reality that she may never be able to give her husband a son. As Lisa shares about her journey through IVF, foster care, and adoption, you will see her beautiful redemption story unfold. Sometimes motherhood, and even our lives, end up looking differently than we had expected.. but in our obedience to God’s calling on our life, He is faithful to work all things out for our good. Episode Highlights: Links Mentioned in Episode/Find More on Purpose Beyond Motherhood, Lisa Robertson, & Hope Bridge: Twelve 12 Ministries Website@twelve12ministries@twelve12ministriesinfo@twelve12ministries.orgFind a Support Group!RefinedVirtual Bible StudyTwelve 12 Ministries Shop@lisa_messintoamessage@hopebridgeohioHope Bridge WebsiteThis show has been produced by Adkins Media Co.

Hey Friends! We’re excited to have Bailey Henry on the show with us today. She is a wife, mother, author, speaker, and a women’s health advocate. A self-proclaimed ‘walking work of progress’ - Bailey is a beacon of hope to the infertility & loss community. Through her journey, Bailey has clung to her faith and has seen the graciousness of God through all of the pain. Living in Mississippi with her husband, son, and dog, she has set out to share her story and let other women know they are not alone in their struggles. As you listen to Bailey’s words, we hope you are encouraged and feel seen. Tune in and join us as she shares her story of infertility, loss, and adoption and walking hand in hand with the Holy Spirit through it. We love you and are praying for you as you navigate this road alongside us. Episode Highlights: Links Mentioned in Episode/Find More on Purpose Beyond Motherhood and : Twelve 12 Ministries Website@twelve12ministries@twelve12ministriesinfo@twelve12ministries.orgFind a Support Group!RefinedVirtual Bible StudyTwelve 12 Ministries ShopVisit Bailey’s Website Here!Purchase Bailey’s Book: Having A Baby & Other Things I’m Bad AtVisit Bailey’s Blog HereGet The Miscarriage GuideThis show has been produced by Adkins Media Co.

Discovering hope and purpose after pregnancy loss looks different for everyone. For today's guest, it looked like creating polymer clay earrings. 6 years ago, Rachel Lohman suffered a pregnancy loss. Like many of us, this obviously wasn’t what she had anticipated the beginning of her motherhood journey to look like. On the road to healing, Rachel started making polymer clay earrings. She was just looking for a creative outlet, but when she shared photos of her new hobby, friends quickly took an interest. Her outlet transitioned into a business, and she now uses her platform to highlight other loss moms’ stories. Rachel & her husband have since had a daughter, and her first book Miscarried Hope - Journeying with Jesus Through Pregnancy & Infant Loss, releases on August 29, 2023. She hopes that her book will help other loss moms and be the resource she was looking for and craving after her miscarriage. Tune in to hear Rachel’s story and learn more about her beautiful ministry. Episode Highlights: Links Mentioned in Episode/Find More on Purpose Beyond Motherhood and Rachel Lohman Twelve 12 Ministries Website@twelve12ministries@twelve12ministriesinfo@twelve12ministries.orgFind a Support Group!RefinedVirtual Bible StudyTwelve 12 Ministries ShopVisit Hope Again Collective’s WebsiteHope Again Collective on InstagramPre-order Rachel’s Book HereVisit Rachel’s Website Here!

Welcome back, friends! We are so excited to share Holly’s talk from our last Refined Conference with you. Holly shares how the Lord carried her on her journey through infertility and loss. In her speech, Holly touches on inviting the Lord in your pain, trusting His timing, advocating for yourself with your doctors, and maintaining healthy relationships as you walk this road. One of the enemy’s biggest tactics against women is to get them stuck in isolation. This journey is hard, but we don’t have to stay isolated from our friends and loved ones. Even if they haven’t experienced pain in the same way as us, they can be great sources of comfort and inspiration. We hope you will join us in listening to Holly’s story and that you will glean strength and feel supported no matter what step of this journey you are on. Episode Highlights: Links Mentioned in Episode/Find More on Purpose Beyond Motherhood and : Twelve 12 Ministries Website@twelve12ministries@twelve12ministriesinfo@twelve12ministries.orgFind extra resources in our Patreon Group!RefinedVirtual Bible StudyTwelve 12 Ministries Shop

Welcome back to the Purpose Beyond Motherhood podcast. Today on the show, we are so excited to have Dr. Katrina Gallagher with us. Dr. Katrina has an incredible testimony about how God has the final word. As a teen, young Katrina was not having regular menstrual cycles. Her doctor put her on supplemental hormones to chemically induce her period at 19. As time went on, she began chiropractic school and learned about the disruption those supplemental hormones cause to natural hormone production. 6 years into taking hormones, she made the decision to stop. 3 years went on, and she was still not having a natural cycle. At this time, Dr. Katrina immersed herself in church and started seeking the Lord in a deeper, more intentional way. She began to notice that many of her chiropractic patients were seeing breakthroughs in their fertility journey. Dr. Katrina’s husband, Corey is also a chiropractor, so she decided to start getting adjusted on a regular basis, along with eating a clean diet of foods that supported hormone production. In seeking the Lord, she began hearing ‘by His stripes I am healed’. She knew that God was working on her body, and hope was being planted in her heart. Listen today to hear Dr. Katrina’s story of how that hope grew and what seemed impossible in the natural became reality through God’s grace. Dr. Katrina now owns a chiropractic & nutrition center for women and children, and is helping thousands experience extraordinary lives. Episode Highlights: Links Mentioned in Episode/Find More on Purpose Beyond Motherhood and Dr. Katrina: Twelve 12 Ministries Website@twelve12ministries@twelve12ministriesFind extra resources in our Patreon Group!Triada Chiropractic WebsiteTriada Chiropractic FacebookTriada Chiropractic InstagramTriada Chiropractic on TikTokGod’s Plan for Pregnancy by Nerida WalkerSupernatural Childbirth by Jackie Mize

Today, we are talking with Dr. Irini Fambro about our authority in Christ, and how it translates in our lives. Dr. Irini is an author, speaker, consultant, business owner, and podcaster. In this episode, we are diving deeper into our God given authority, speaking truth over our lives, our identity in Christ, taking thoughts captive, and more. We live in a broken world where the enemy runs rampant. In his attack against the Kingdom of God, he will use any ground we allow him to take. We must be aware of our authority in Christ and be ready to put up our shields of faith in times of spiritual attack. Tune in for encouragement and truth spoken by the wonderful Dr. Irini Fambro. Episode Highlights: Intro to Dr. Irini FambroUnderstanding your God-given authorityTaking care of your territorySpeaking truthOur identity in ChristTake your thoughts captiveShields of Faith Links Mentioned in Episode/Find More on Purpose Beyond Motherhood and Twelve 12 Ministries: Join us at our next Event Visit the Twelve 12 Ministries ShopTwelve 12 Ministries WebsiteIG Handle: @twelve12ministriesFacebook: @twelve12ministriesEmail: info@twelve12ministries.orgFollow Dr. Irini Fambro on Instagram

The enemy has a target, and his target is the Kingdom of God. Our identity in Christ is under attack, and we are losing sight of God’s design for men and women. He designed men to be hunters, warriors, & kings and women to be collectors, connectors, & queens. The enemy is constantly at work to emasculate men. He wants to blur the line between male & female and eradicate the roles God has created. In today’s episode, we are chatting with Holly’s mom, Cristie Penn about God’s goodness and His design for us as the Kingdom of God. Cristie is a powerhouse for Jesus. She is the author of Keys of Truth: Unlocking God’s Design for the Sexes. This was such an eye-opening discussion for us about the roles of men & women, and we are so excited to share it with you. Episode Highlights: Introduction to CristieHe was there the whole timeHearing GodThe enemy has a targetThe Kingdom of GodIdentity in ChristHunters, warriors, and kingsCollectors, connectors, and queensThe emasculation of menWomen are highly adaptable Links Mentioned in Episode/Find More on Purpose Beyond Motherhood and Cristie Penn: Register for Refined! Visit the Twelve 12 Ministries ShopTwelve 12 Ministries WebsiteIG Handle: @twelve12ministriesFacebook: @twelve12ministriesEmail: info@twelve12ministries.orgKeys of Truth TestimonialsKeys of Truth: Unlocking God’s Design for the SexesKeys of Truth 13-Week Study Guide

Including our spouse in our infertility journey can be difficult. We want them to know what to say & not say, and what to do & when to do it... But we aren’t the only ones experiencing this journey. Our spouse is hurting too, so we must keep that in mind while navigating our own hurts and show them grace. Communication is so crucial during this time. In today’s episode, we sit down with Lizelle Fischer, licensed professional counselor, and friend to discuss including our spouse in our infertility journey. Lizelle has some great advice and experience to share with us. We learned a lot of helpful tips during this conversation, and we believe you will too! You are not alone! Episode Highlights: Links Mentioned in Episode/Find More on Purpose Beyond Motherhood: Register For Refined on April 29th!Twelve 12 Ministries WebsiteIG Handle: @twelve12ministriesFacebook: @twelve12ministriesEmail: info@twelve12ministriesPurchase our Declaration Cards!

To grieve is to know that you’ve loved. Navigating grief and loss can be so lonely, but we can take heart in knowing that we are not alone. Our Heavenly Father is ever present, and He will provide the strength and peace we need to get through each day. In 2 Corinthians 12:9, the Word says “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.”. Let’s lean into that truth from God’s Word today. In today’s episode, we dive deep into navigating grief and loss with Dr. Barbara Byers. Dr. Barbara is a counselor with over 20 years of counseling practice, an author, a speaker, a seminar leader, and a podcaster. She believes in the transformative power of God’s abiding presence in everyday life. It is our hope and prayer that this conversation will bring validation, hope, and encouragement to those who listen. You are in our prayers and we are here for you! Be on the lookout for Dr. Barbara Myers’ new book coming out titled The Voices of the Soul: The Song of Transformation. Episode Highlights: Links Mentioned in Episode/Find More on Purpose Beyond Motherhood and Dr. Barbara Myers: Twelve 12 Ministries WebsiteIG Handle: @twelve12ministriesFacebook: @twelve12ministriesEmail: info@twelve12ministriesPurchase our Declaration Cards!J William Worden’s Book on GriefDr. Barbara Byers on InstagramDr. Barbara Byers WebsiteMan’s Search for Meaning by Viktor E. FranklDr. Barbara’s Podcast

Happy New Year and welcome back to the Purpose Beyond Motherhood podcast! In this first episode of the year, Nicole and Holly sit down with their friend Sarah Heath to discuss goal setting and inviting God in to be a part of that! We all have hopes and dreams coming into a new year, but it’s important to include the Lord in our goal-setting. In Matthew 6:33, the Word says ‘But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.’. Friends, our prayer for you this year is that you will look to the Lord for strength, hope, and guidance and that it will be your BEST year yet! Episode Highlights: Acknowledging God is in controlGoal Setting in the New YearCoping with disappointment and finding gratitudeInviting God in and making Him the CEO of your lifeYou are Not Alone Links Mentioned in Episode/Fine More on Purpose Beyond Motherhood and : Twelve 12 Ministries WebsiteIG Handle: @twelve12ministriesFacebook: @twelve12ministriesEmail: info@twelve12ministriesPurchase our Declaration Cards!

In today’s episode, we are excited to share with you a segment from our Refined 2022 panel discussion. In this segment, Holly is joined by her mom, Cristie, and friend, Jaclyn to share some of her journey. We hope you find comfort in this episode and know that you do not have to walk this road alone! Episode Highlights: Holly’s StoryThe roles loved ones playThings Holly wishes she’d known at the timeLessons learned through her experienceDon’t listen to the lies from the enemyGod can handle your disappointment Links Mentioned in Episode/Fine More on Purpose Beyond Motherhood and : Twelve 12 Ministries WebsiteIG Handle: @twelve12ministriesFacebook: @twelve12ministriesEmail: info@twelve12ministriesPurchase our Declaration Cards!Refined 2022 Full Video

Welcome back friends! The goal of this episode is to show you how to keep your cool and keep the Lord first this holiday season. Well-meaning people will say triggering things, and we want to encourage you with helpful ways to navigate those difficult situations and remove yourself from the conversation when you need to. Let the Holy Spirit fill your hearts & minds with peace this holiday season. We love you and hope this episode will help encourage you! You are not alone! Episode Highlights: Find More on Purpose Beyond Motherhood and Twelve 12 Ministries : Twelve 12 Ministries Website@twelve12ministries@twelve12ministriesinfo@twelve12ministries.org

Can I get an encore? Welcome back, friends! We are excited to share an encore episode with you today! This is one of our most listened-to episodes, and we think you will understand why once you take a listen. This was our first episode together.. Little did we know that it was just the beginning and God was going to bring us together in a new way! In this raw and impactful episode, Holly shares about her struggles with infertility, loss, comparison, isolation, and the beauty that God eventually brought from all of it. We can’t wait for you to listen, and trust that God will speak to you through this story! Episode Highlights: Encore Episode with Holly Piorkowski Infertility Journey Navigating Loss The Road to Healing The Miracle of Motherhood Links Mentioned in Episode/Find More on Purpose Beyond Motherhood and Twelve 12 Ministries : Twelve 12 Ministries Website