Money Magic Podcast

In this week’s episode of the Money Magic podcast episode, Vangile talks about explore the transformative journey of evolving from the Fixer Money Archetype to the Sovereign One. She delves into the origins of the Fixer archetype and explains how unresolved trauma often manifests as a need to control our environment, particularly within family dynamics. Vangile explains how the need to control is deeply rooted in trauma responses, including feelings of powerlessness, fear, and a desire to avoid vulnerability. She discusses how control may initially create a sense of safety but can have unintended consequences—from fostering dependency and resentment to reinforcing dysfunctional family patterns. These dynamics can block authentic connection, erode boundaries, and perpetuate cycles of over-responsibility and burnout. This episode also examines how the Fixer archetype impacts family relationships, preventing others from developing self-reliance and stifling mutual growth. She also explores the Sovereign archetype as the evolved state of the Fixer. The Sovereign One leads with confidence, trusts themselves and others, sets clear boundaries, and creates relationships built on trust and mutual respect. This is another insightful episode. Tune in! During this episode, you will learn about: [02:08] - Introduction to the podcast [05:42] - Introduction to the Fixer Archetype [09:30] - The role of a Fixer in the family [15:50] - The Fixer’s role and life lessons [18:29] - How Fixer’s behave as children [25:45] - The parentified child who is an adult at a young age [31:10] The difference between the Destroyer and Fixer Archetypes [38:37] - How Fixer’s respond to family’s financial problems [43:11] - The Fixer’s feelings of guilt around money [50:38] - Why it’s essential for a Fixer to heal [57:00] - Healing the God Wound as a Fixer [01:02:28] - How the Sovereign One behaves compared to The Fixer [01:09:35} - The Destroyer - Fixer relationship [01:19:10] - Where to get the “What’s Your Money Personality?” book [01:20:33] - Coaching services Notable Quotes Additional money trauma resources: One on One Coaching: https://www.wealthy-money.com/coaching Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic 7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/

In this podcast episode, Vangile talks about the "RunAway archetype" and its transformation into the "Grounded Seeker." Vangile explains the behavioral patterns, core wounds, and healing journey of the RunAway, which involves avoiding uncomfortable financial situations and feelings due to learned trauma responses. The RunAway archetype often manifests through avoidance, escapism, and impulsive spending, leading to cycles of debt and financial instability. The RunAway’s transformation involves acknowledging the need for change, practicing self-awareness, and learning to feel safe in the body. The Grounded Seeker archetype embodies stability, presence, and financial awareness, enabling individuals to build generational wealth and improve family dynamics. Vangile emphasizes how the RunAway thrives by developing routines, coming into their bodies and regulating their nervous system. This is another insightful episode. Tune in! During this episode, you will learn about: [02:08] - Introduction to the podcast [03:59] - Discussion on the runaway archetype and its transformation [08:15] - Characteristics and behaviors of the RunAway archetype [14:03] - Effects of trauma on the runaway archetype and family dynamics [18:14] - Dissociation and externalizing security [25:10] - Discussion on busyness and financial habits of runaways [29:07] - Differences between runaway and sweet one archetypes in conflict avoidance [33:08] - Short-term solutions and the allure of quick fixes [37:29] - Physical manifestations of trauma and its impact on the body [40:38] - Cycles of debt and financial avoidance [44:35] - Impulsive spending and its consequences [51:50] - Addiction tendencies and family relationships [54:34] - Beginning the healing journey and physical symptoms [57:34] - Importance of somatic work and mind-body connection [01:04:21] - Characteristics of the grounded seeker archetype [01:07:08] - Developing self-trust and financial responsibility [01:10:59] - Key practices for the grounded seeker [01:13:36] - Practicing neutrality with money [01:16:10] - Building financial trust and empowerment [01:18:48] - Closing remarks and reflection prompts [01:25:45] - Information on where to find the book and how to work with Vangile [01:32:46] - Details on one-on-one coaching [01:34:03] - Final comments and participant interaction Notable Quotes Additional money trauma resources: One on One Coaching: https://www.wealthy-money.com/coaching Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic 7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/

In this podcast episode, Vangile talks about the Destroyer Archetype which is known for rebellion and bringing family secrets to light, often seen as difficult or an outcast. The Destroyer archetype is someone who often rebels against family norms and is seen as a "black sheep." Destroyers carry a strong sense of independence, yet this can lead to feelings of isolation. The Destroyer’s journey is often marked by deep wounds, including feelings of abandonment, rejection, and self-doubt. Growing up in chaotic environments can lead to difficulties managing finances. Vangile explains that Destroyers, though often misunderstood, play a crucial role in family dynamics. They bring hidden truths and secrets to light, often disrupting the status quo. This role can be painful but ultimately leads to healing and growth within the family. The Destroyer’s wounds of not belonging can create an overwhelming fear of failure, particularly regarding money. This can result in stagnation, where this archetype remains stuck in unsatisfying financial situations. In an effort to feel a sense of belonging or acceptance, Destroyers may overcompensate by spending excessively on material goods or experiences. This is another insightful episode. Tune in! During this episode, you will learn about: [02:08] - Introduction to the podcast [04:00] - Discussion on the destroyer archetype [08:27] – The Destroyer’s role in the family [17:32] - Challenges faced by destroyers in following traditional financial advice [20:37] - Introduction to the destroyer archetype's characteristics [24:59] - Importance of the destroyer archetype [30:32] - The independence of destroyers and their challenges in adulthood [35:00] - Importance of healthy conflict initiated by destroyers [39:39] - Core wounds of the destroyer archetype and their financial impact [45:41] - Impact of fear of being too much [49:39] - How fear of rejection affects destroyers' finances [54:02] - The healing journey of the destroyer archetype [58:17] - Releasing thoughts and emotions in the body [01:01:16] - Transition from destroyer to renovator archetype [01:02:39] - Explanation of the renovator's role in the family [01:06:57] - How healing affects destroyers' financial behavior [01:11:18] - The Destroyers' financial transformation after healing [01:19:30] - Information on purchasing the book and accessing resources [01:23:47] - Introduction to one-on-one coaching and its benefits [01:33:47] – Closing remarks Notable Quotes Additional money trauma resources: One on One Coaching: https://www.wealthy-money.com/coaching Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic 7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/

In this episode of the Money Magic podcast, Vangile Makwakwa is focuses on understanding the Sweet One Money Archetype. The Sweet One is empathetic and generous, often putting others' needs before their own. While this makes them caring and compassionate people, it can also lead to financial challenges like debt due to overgiving and struggles with setting boundaries. In this episode Vangile emphasizes the importance of addressing the "not good enough" wound to improve financial behaviour. This involves self-compassion and self-validation instead of seeking external approval. Vangile also explores the challenges Sweet Ones face in pricing their services and seeking salary increases due to fear of judgment and conflict. This discomfort with charging often translates to the Sweet One giving their services away for free or undercharging drastically, which, while temporarily preserving relationships, ultimately leads to financial stress. The Sweet One may even experience guilt for wanting fair compensation (that’s a vow of service), perceiving it as selfish or out of alignment with their identity as a giver. Vangile also does an EFT Tapping session on pricing and salary anxiety. This is another insightful episode. Tune in! During this episode, you will learn about: [05:36] - Discussing the sweet one archetype and financial boundaries [07:08] - Explanation of shadow and golden archetypes [11:17] - Definition of the sweet one archetype [17:08] - The sweet one’s role in family and financial implications [20:06] - Challenges of pricing and asking for salary raises [24:29] - The sweet one's fear of rejection [28:57] - Importance of boundaries for the Sweet One [34:25] - Working through the not good enough wound [40:15] - Misconceptions about pricing and self-worth [44:31] - Aligning financial goals with personal values [53:01] - Transition from sweet one to boundary one [01:04:16] - Making small incremental changes for financial improvement [01:07:28] - Discussion on repressed anger within the sweet one [01:15:34] - EFT tapping session for pricing and salary anxiety [01:20:03] - EFT tapping session for salary concerns [01:43:22] - Working with sweet ones without exploiting them [01:46:05] - Information on where to buy the book and other resources [02:01:07] - Closing remarks and invitation for further engagement Notable Quotes Additional money trauma resources: One on One Coaching: https://www.wealthy-money.com/coaching Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic 7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/

In this episode of the Money Magic podcast, Vangile Makwakwa explores the relationship between money, ancestral trauma, and healing. This episode focuses on how systemic oppression affects family dynamics and financial behavior, particularly among marginalized groups. It highlights the effects of colonization, slavery, and apartheid on financial behaviors, leading to a survival mindset that prioritizes immediate needs over long-term planning. Vangile also discusses the concept of money archetypes and how family dynamics shape them. She emphasizes the importance of recognizing one's money archetype to understand financial behaviors and develop healthier relationships with money. She also underscores the need for healing ancestral trauma by understanding how historical and cultural contexts influence financial narratives. It also touches on the psychological effects of oppression and the importance of addressing these issues at a nervous system level. This is another insightful episode. Tune in! During this episode, you will learn about: [02:08]: Introduction to the current episode [05:07]: Discussion on financial behaviors and systemic oppression [06:37]: The impact of systemic oppression on financial advice for women [10:52]: Family dynamics and generational wealth [18:28]: Reflective exercise for listeners on family money memories [22:07]: The role of family money stories and cultural impacts [26:18]: Impact of historical and cultural contexts on money stories [33:53]: The importance of working with personal and systemic factors [36:50]: The impact of societal expectations on personal financial behavior [43:04]: Differences in financial planning between different socioeconomic groups [50:40]: The perpetuation of poverty cycles due to lack of financial resources [56:52]: The impact of single-parent households on ancestral wisdom [59:50]: Research findings on poverty's impact on brain development [01:02:55]: The impact of financial stress on decision-making and self-worth [01:08:43]: Importance of holistic healing in financial trauma [01:16:37]: Recognizing and adapting money archetypes [01:18:07]: Explanation of shadow and golden archetypes [01:19:32]: Book promotion and availability information [01:38:30] : Closing remarks and additional resources offered Notable Quotes Additional money trauma resources: One on One Coaching: https://www.wealthy-money.com/coaching Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic 7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/

In this episode of the Money Magic podcast, Vangile Makwakwa sits down with Tebello Motshwane, an attorney specializing in family law with a focus on marriage. Tebello is also the founder of a platform called Sister-in-law, which is a platform dedicated to empowering women through legal education. Tebello emphasizes the importance of understanding marriage contracts and financial arrangements before marriage. She highlights the dangers of being married in community of property in South Africa, which can lead to shared liabilities and financial complications, advising instead to consider marriage out of community of property with or without accrual. She stresses the importance of having an anti-nuptial contract to protect individual financial assets and liabilities. Tebello also explains that couples should openly discuss finances, including debts, monthly commitments, and financial goals before marrying. She explains that In South Africa, customary marriages, even without registration at Home Affairs, are legally binding. Proper legal procedures should be followed to dissolve such marriages to avoid future complications. Tebello also advises being financially and emotionally prepared for the possibility of divorce, highlighting the importance of minimizing litigation costs and being aware of the emotional and financial impacts of transitioning from a dual-income to a single-income household. This is another insightful episode. Tune in! During this episode, you will learn about: [02:19] – Vangile welcomes listeners [03:42] - Introduction to Tebello Motshwane [05:02] – Tebello’s background and mission [07:30] – Tebello explains how she started Sister-in-law [10:21] - Discussion on financial aspects of marriage [14:00] - Questions to ask about finances before marriage [19:05] - Differences between marriage regimes [22:08] - Risks of being married in community of property [27:32] - Cultural perceptions of marriage contracts [33:02] - Legal implications of lobola [37:17] - Legal dissolution of customary marriage [41:06] - Clarification on unregistered customary marriages [43:37] - Deal breakers in marriage discussions [46:36] - Financial preparation for divorce [49:19] - Removing shame from divorce processes [51:07] - Insights on approaching marriage [52:13 – Final words from Tebello Contact Tebello: https://www.instagram.com/sister_in_law_/ https://web.facebook.com/sisterinlawsa sisterinlaw.co.za Notable Quotes Additional money trauma resources: One on One Coaching: https://www.wealthy-money.com/coaching Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic 7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/

In this week’s episode of the Money Magic Podcast, Vangile sits down with Brooke Kekos, an expert in helping women heal from abusive relationships, including financial abuse. Brooke shares her personal journey of enduring abuse from childhood that continued into her adult life, discussing the patterns of control and manipulation she experienced, particularly in financial matters. In this podcast episode Brooke explains financial abuse as a form of control where one partner restricts access to financial resources, making the victim feel powerless. This can involve controlling spending, withholding money, or making financial decisions unilaterally. She also shares her story of growing up with a controlling father and later entering a similar dynamic in her marriage, highlighting how familiarity with such patterns can trap individuals. Brooke also discusses her experiences with religious trauma, having been raised in a cult. She details the impact of this on her sense of self and autonomy, drawing parallels to financial and emotional abuse. The conversation emphasizes the importance of reclaiming autonomy, both financially and personally. Brooke talks about reconnecting with one's body and intuition through practices like meditation and yoga to heal from abuse. Overall, the episode is a deep dive into the complexities of financial abuse and its intersection with other forms of trauma. This is another insightful podcast. Tune in! During this episode, you will learn about: [02:08] – Introduction to Brooke Kekos [04:36] - Brooke shares her personal story and background [08:44] - Brooke talks about the control dynamics in her family and her past relationship [11:33] - Examples of financial control and how it manifests in relationships [12:52] - How financial abuse is identified and the importance of autonomy in financial decisions [18:16] - Identifying happiness in relationships and advocating for oneself financially [21:00] - The value of leaving an abusive situation early for better opportunities in the future [27:26] - The journey from survival to thriving by connecting with the body and intuition [31:13] - The guilt and shame associated with religious trauma, especially around sexuality [36:43] - How disconnection from the body affects decision-making and financial autonomy [39:59] - Meditation and yoga as tools for reconnecting with the body and healing [46:10] - The importance of releasing trauma stored in the body through yoga [50:52] - The importance of curiosity and exploring new belief systems [56:17] - The importance of support and community for healing and achieving goals [01:02:22] – Contact Brooke: Website: https://www.lifecoachinggoddess.com/ https://www.instagram.com/brookekekos https://web.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100075036248909&_rdc=1&_rdr Notable Quotes Additional money trauma resources: One on One Coaching: https://www.wealthy-money.com/coaching Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic 7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/

In this week’s episode of the Money Magic Podcast, Vangile sits down with Tshepang Ramoba, a musician, artist, and podcast editor. The conversation delves into Tshepang's journey with money, his experiences as a rock star, and his struggles with financial management. He shares insights into his upbringing, how he learned about money, and the impact of his family's financial habits on his own. Tshepang discusses how past struggles and trauma affected his ability to manage and hold onto money. He highlights the importance of addressing subconscious beliefs and behaviors related to money. He also emphasizes the significance of budgeting and how it has helped him manage his finances better, especially in his projects. The conversation touches on the importance of healing and self-care. Tshepang talks about the role of meditation, tapping, and other healing practices in improving his financial situation and overall well-being. Tshepang also shares his journey of learning to balance generosity with maintaining boundaries, ensuring that his relationships with others and money are healthy and sustainable. He discusses the importance of celebrating achievements, which helps to reinforce positive financial behaviors and attract more abundance. This is another insightful podcast. Tune in! During this episode, you will learn about: [02:20] - Introduction to Tshepang [05:14] – Tshepang discusses his purpose and work [07:00] -Discussion on music and podcast editing [10:04] – Tshepang’s experience with money and spending habits [14:00] - Life as a musician and financial struggles [21:19] - Band financial issues and resolution [23:22] - Building a relationship with money [27:31] – From struggling artist to recognition [29:04] - Early struggles and perseverance [37:21] - Transition to fame and visibility [44:57] - Impact of trauma on financial habits [51:21] - Discussing money in relationships [56:55] - Budgeting and financial planning [01:02:12] - Paying off debts and financial habits [01:11:58] - Lessons learned about money [01:18:47] - Celebrating financial success safely [01:20:26] - Importance of pleasure and balance [01:23:43] – Contact Tshepang: Website: postpost.co.za Instagram and Facebook: Tshepang Ramoba Notable Quotes Additional money trauma resources: One on One Coaching: https://www.wealthy-money.com/coaching Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic 7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/

In this week’s podcast of the Money Magic Podcast, Vangile shares the first of her seven-part What's Your Money Personality? Masterclasses. In the class she explores how financial behaviors and patterns are passed down through generations. This class focused on how ancestral money trauma influences our nervous systems, emotional responses, and attitudes toward money. She discusses how family dynamics, co-regulation, and inherited beliefs create unconscious patterns around spending, saving, and earning. She also looked at the impact of dysregulated nervous systems on financial behaviors and how trauma from previous generations manifests in the way we approach money today. Tune in. During this episode, you will learn about: [02:08] – Introduction to the masterclass [06:37] – Vangile shares personal financial experiences [09:34] - Discussion on family dynamics and financial habits [12:22] - Explanation of trauma and its impact [15:25] - Childhood trauma and financial behavior [18:24] - Introduction to ancestral trauma [21:24] - Trauma's intergenerational effects [27:19] - The impact of upbringing on financial decisions [36:58] - Importance of nervous system regulation [46:18] - Impact of sibling relationships on financial behavior [49:19] - Recognizing and understanding financial patterns [53:13] - Explanation of mirroring and rebelling against patterns [57:03] - Audience interaction and advice on financial behavior [01:00:07] – The impact of family structure on financial literacy [01:08:19] - Conclusion and final thoughts on family dynamics [01:11:02] - Information on purchasing the book and coaching services [01:12:27] - Audience questions and wrap-up Notable Quotes Additional money trauma resources: One on One Coaching: https://www.wealthy-money.com/coaching Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic 7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/

In this week’s podcast of the Money Magic Podcast, Vangile sits down with Brittany Williams, who discusses her work in facilitating freedom, particularly as a sex doula focusing on lower chakras. Brittany highlights the importance of addressing trauma, which often hides in one's sexuality, and how this can manifest in various life aspects, including financial behaviors. She delves into unconventional paths, such as anal consciousness and placenta work, to explore the nuances of trauma and its impact on one's life. Brittany shares personal experiences of her health challenges and how understanding her lineage helped her navigate and transform those aspects of her life. Brittany also discusses the significance of understanding the placenta's role and how it connects generations, carrying ancestral experiences that shape one's current life. She advocates for accessing the energetics of the placenta to gain insights into one's lineage and personal history. The conversation also explores the importance of breaking systemic patterns, especially in marginalized communities, to create a better future for subsequent generations. Brittany emphasizes the need for individuals to develop the acumen to hold and grow wealth, rather than just having access to it. This is another insightful episode. Tune in. During this episode, you will learn about: [02:24] – Introduction to Brittany Williams [03:35] - Brittany discusses her soul's journey and roles in life. [05:14] - Trauma manifesting in money and sexuality. [09:49] - Brittany explains the significance of the placenta. [15:10] - Brittany talks about her family’s health patterns. [20:52] - Accessing the placenta energetically. [23:20] - Meditation practices related to the placenta. [28:36] - The connection between fibroids and ancestral behavior. [34:51] - Brittany shares her genealogy and its impact on her life. [41:38] – The difference between proximity and access. [48:20] - The acumen of understanding how to hold things. [53:51] - Shifts in relationships with money and time. [55:53] - Anal consciousness and its significance. [59:10] - Identity level release and sexual trauma. [01:03:08] - How anal consciousness affects vocal expression. [01:09:41] - Exploring pleasure and prosperity through release. [01:11:49] – Contact Brittany: https://www.instagram.com/thee_brittanyrwilliams/ or https://web.facebook.com/profile.php?id=23421550 Notable Quotes Additional money trauma resources: One on One Coaching: https://www.wealthy-money.com/coaching Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic 7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/

In this week’s episode of the #MoneyMagic Podcast, Vangile Makwakwa sits with Naomi Harris, an expert in sexual pleasure and empowerment, to discuss women's issues around sexual pleasure, orgasm, and healing ancestral trauma. Naomi shares her journey of self-discovery, highlighting her personal struggles with sexual pleasure and the transformative impact of addressing these issues. The conversation delves into the significance of exploring one's own body, understanding the importance of sexual pleasure, and the societal pressures that often limit women's experiences. Naomi emphasizes the need for women to reclaim their sexual power and embrace their bodies without shame. The discussion also explores the connection between sexual pleasure and financial well-being, suggesting that the ability to experience and embrace pleasure can positively influence other aspects of life, including financial abundance. Naomi shares insights on how societal norms and patriarchal structures shape women's perceptions of sexuality and pleasure, often leading to suppressed desires and unmet needs. The conversation encourages women to question these narratives and understand the profound impact of pleasure on overall quality of life. This is another insightful episode. Tune in. During this episode, you will learn about: [02:47] – Introduction to Naomi Harris [06:42] - Naomi's journey into understanding her sexuality [08:53] - Female sexuality research and societal issues [10:56] - Societal expectations and personal identity [16:59.9] - The importance of self-ownership in pleasure [18:21] - Explanation of female arousal and health [22:29] - How women can recognize full arousal [27:05] – The effect of trauma on sexuality [29:40] - How first sexual experiences shape expectations [33:57] - How pleasure relates to money and relationships [40:00] - Centering pleasure in life [45:55] - The effect of centering pleasure on finances [49:32] - The power of breathwork in healing [53:16] - Creating safe spaces for healing in relationships [57:09] - The importance of a regulated nervous system for creating safe spaces [01:01:05] – Contact Naomi: https://www.thepleasurenaturopath.com/ or https://www.instagram.com/_sensualfreedom_ Notable Quotes Additional money trauma resources: One on One Coaching: https://www.wealthy-money.com/coaching Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic 7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/

In this week’s episode of the #MoneyMagic Podcast, sits down with Khanyi Makhaya who discusses her journey as an investor and student of the Money Magic course. She shares her background in banking and finance and her transition to teaching and property development. Khanyi emphasizes the importance of understanding one's soul and emotional patterns to improve financial outcomes. She highlights the significance of addressing emotional and spiritual aspects in financial matters, which she learned through her experiences in the corporate world and personal life. Khanyi reflects on her upbringing, experiences in the corporate world, and the impact of her educational background. She discusses the challenges of managing debt while working in the banking sector and the lack of discussions on generational wealth building. She also shares her insights on the importance of emotional intelligence and resilience in property development and the necessity of doing inner work to transform one's relationship with money. She also discusses the importance of building supportive communities and networks, especially for women and people of colour. Khanyi also talks about the tangible shifts she experienced after joining the Money Magic course, such as understanding her financial behaviours and breaking patterns of over-giving. She expresses gratitude for the course's community and resources, which helped her address her emotional and financial challenges. This is another insightful episode. Tune in. During this episode, you will learn about: [02:08] - Introduction to Khanyi Makhaya [07:37] - Khanyi’s passion for her work in property and training [10:46] - Reflection on personal values and money [12:08] - Discussion on the sweet one archetype and people-pleasing [18:32] - Lessons learned in corporate and personal management [23:03] - Generational wealth and leaving a legacy [28:38] - Reflections on school networks and their impact [33:43] - Gender dynamics and corporate environments [39:50] - How buying love affects financial decisions [44:11] - The God wound and its personal impact [52:52] - Tangible shifts and tools used in financial journey [56:42] - Meditations and ancestral trauma healing [59:09] - Importance of structured learning vs. free resources [01:03:20] - Importance of addressing subconscious issues [01:10:23] - Approach to money and relationships [01:15:58] - Boundaries and relationships [01:16:16] - Contact Khanyi: https://web.facebook.com/khanyi.makhaya Notable Quotes Additional money trauma resources: One on One Coaching: https://www.wealthy-money.com/coaching Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic 7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/

In this week’s episode of the #MoneyMagic Podcast, Vangile shares a class she did with her clients in the Money Magic group where she talks about the Money Magic course and the power of listening to your own intuition. She delves into the concept of identity transformation and how it relates to financial growth and discusses the importance of aligning one's current identity with the desired future self, using personal experiences to illustrate how identities formed in childhood can impact financial behaviors as adults. She encourages listeners to actively work on integrating new identities by embracing new habits, mindsets, and even changes in personal style or environment that align with their financial goals. In addition to internal work, Vangile suggests practical exercises such as maintaining a journal to track daily proofs of financial success and personal growth. She highlights the power of recognizing small wins to shift mindsets and reinforce new identities. She emphasizes the importance of dreaming and planning for the future, using tools like Pinterest to visualize desired lifestyles and environments, ultimately encouraging listeners to creatively and intentionally craft their evolving identities. This is another insightful episode. Tune in. During this episode, you will learn about: [02:10]: Welcoming new Money Magic students [03:53]: Explanation of the course philosophy [08:07]: The power of collective support and sharing emotions [09:26]: Letting go of the need to be perfect [13:17]: Personal journey and mindset shifts [16:04]: Overcoming trauma and shifting identity [19:01]: Personal transformation and identity work [27:09]: Embracing new identities and expanding [31:26]: Practical steps for personal transformation [36:39]: Creating a new identity and vision board integrity [44:59]: Honoring new identities and letting go of old ones [48:22]: Daily practices to affirm new identities. [01:00:00]: Conclusion and invitation to free training. Notable Quotes Additional money trauma resources: One on One Coaching: https://www.wealthy-money.com/coaching Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic 7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/

In this week’s episode of the #MoneyMagic Podcast, Vangile sits down with Valerie Rubin, a trauma-informed coach, as a guest to discuss trauma and its impact on relationships and attachment styles. Valerie introduces herself as a passionate individual dedicated to helping people feel safe in their bodies and heal anxious attachment styles for healthier relationships. She explains that anxious attachment often results from inconsistent emotional support from caregivers during childhood, leading individuals to become hyper-vigilant and people-pleasing in relationships. Valerie emphasizes the importance of self-soothing and self-care to manage relationship anxiety and build more secure connections. The conversation delves into the characteristics of anxious attachment, such as chronic anxiety, codependency, and fear of abandonment. Valerie notes that people with anxious attachment lean on external validation and struggle with trust issues. She also explains that these behaviors are symptoms of deeper wounds rather than fixed identities, suggesting that healing is possible through recognizing and integrating these parts. Valerie elaborates on how these dynamics can lead to patterns like people-pleasing, which can attract emotionally unavailable partners. The discussion highlights the importance of acknowledging one's needs and setting boundaries to foster healthy relationships while addressing the fear of abandonment that often accompanies anxious attachment. Contact Valerie: https://www.instagram.com/healwithval/ This is another insightful episode. Tune in. During this episode, you will learn about: [02:08]: Introduction to Valerie Rubin [03:04]: Valerie begins discussing trauma and attachment styles [05:19]: Symptoms of an anxious attachment style [07:05]: How attachment styles are formed in childhood [08:11]: The difference between anxious and avoidant attachment styles [10:01]: How childhood experiences influence attachment styles [13:12]: How attachment styles affect adult relationships [20:12]: Question about managing anxious attachment while dating [25:09]: Valerie provides a meditation exercise for healing abandonment anxiety. [27:43]: Avoidant attachment style and its formation. [37:13]: The link between attachment styles and financial behavior. [45:40]: Healing pelvic floor issues and their connection to attachment styles [47:45]: The connection between pelvic health and receiving [51:48]: Communication in intimate relationships [56:03]: Information on how to connect with Valerie Rubin Notable Quotes Additional money trauma resources: One on One Coaching: https://www.wealthy-money.com/coaching Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic 7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/

In this week’s episode of the #MoneyMagic Podcast, Vangile introduces her guest, Marcia Armstrong, a personal finance disruptor from Barbados, who shares her insights and experiences in personal finance. Marcia, worked at City Bank for a decade and recounts her journey from financial instability to becoming debt-free. She explains how she realized the importance of stewardship over money and adopted the snowball method to repay her debt. Marcia emphasizes the significance of acknowledging one's debt, selecting a repayment strategy, and finding ways to increase income. She also highlights the importance of automating payments and having a support system to stay motivated throughout the debt repayment process. Marcia delves into the emotional and mental shifts required to achieve financial freedom, discussing how she had to confront her money script and the trauma associated with it. She explains that financial literacy is a lifelong journey that requires daily habits such as checking bank accounts, understanding financial goals, and being intentional with money. She stresses the need for a mindset shift from scarcity to abundance and the importance of serving others to create generational wealth and legacy. In her work with clients, Marcia offers one-on-one coaching, group coaching programs, and a personal finance course. She aims to empower individuals to become financially confident and independent, capable of managing their finances without constant reliance on a coach. Contact Marcia: https://www.facebook.com/apurposelife https://www.instagram.com/a.purpose.life https://apurposelife246.com/ This is another insightful episode. Tune in. During this episode, you will learn about: [03:17]: Introduction to Marcia Armstrong. [04:44]: Marcia talks about becoming a personal finance disruptor [06:59]: Marcia's debt-free journey and strategies. [08:23]: How to start paying off debt. [12:47]: Importance of automation and support system. [16:24]: Explanation of the snowball method. [24:25]: Importance of community and personal change during the financial journey. [31:50]: Addressing money trauma to prevent future setbacks. [34:14]: Challenges of limited resources and asking for help. [37:40]: Observations on wealth and scarcity mindset. [44:48]: Maintaining daily financial habits. [52:18]: Embracing the road less traveled and creating legacy. [58:04]: Final thoughts on financial literacy and empowerment. [58:47]: How to connect with Marcia Armstrong. Notable Quotes Additional money trauma resources: One on One Coaching: https://www.wealthy-money.com/coaching Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic 7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/

In this week’s episode of the #MoneyMagic Podcast, Vangile sits down with Hlulani Rikhotso, an industrial engineer and Money Magic student. Hlulani discusses her background and her interest in helping young adults with career coaching. She talks about her realization of the impact of ancestral trauma on financial behavior and how this awareness led her to join the Money Magic course. Hlulani also shares her initial fears about the intensity of the course but acknowledges how it has helped her understand and heal her financial trauma. She recounts her journey after joining the course, including being retrenched from her job and eventually finding better employment opportunities. She attributes her resilience and success to the inner work and tools provided by the Money Magic course. She also highlights the importance of having a supportive tribe to discuss money and expand financial possibilities. She also shares the benefits of the Money Magic course, emphasizing that the deep, experiential work goes beyond surface-level understanding. This is another insightful episode. Tune in! During this episode, you will learn about: [02:08]: Introduction of the guest, Hlulani Rikhotso [03:31]: Hlulani introduces herself and her work [06:43]: ulani's journey to understanding financial trauma [09:17]: Hlulani’s experience with being entrenched [10:34]: Importance of getting up and rebuilding after a fall [11:41]: Hlulani’s understanding of trauma and ancestral trauma [13:42]: Emotional relationship with money before the course [22:13]: Cushioning from the full impact of retrenchment [27:42]: Importance of a tribe in discussing money [29:29]: Impactful lessons: inner child, mother wound, and father wound meditations [36:04]: Importance of deep work and discovering root causes [39:06]: Taking breaks and following intuition [42:49]: Contact Hlulani [45:59]: Closing remarks and invitation to join the Money Magic course Notable Quotes Additional money trauma resources: One on One Coaching: https://www.wealthy-money.com/coaching Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic 7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/

In this episode of the Money Magic Podcast, Vangile discusses the concept of feeling unsafe with money and not having money. She explains that people who feel unsafe with money tend to avoid dealing with it, often by procrastinating on tasks like sending invoices or paying bills. This avoidance behavior stems from a deeper fear and results in financial instability. On the flip side, those who feel unsafe without money tend to hoard it and are afraid to spend, leading to missed opportunities for investment and growth. Vangile emphasizes the importance of achieving a regulated nervous system around money, where one feels calm and neutral regardless of their financial situation. This regulation allows for better financial decision-making and investment strategies. She also touches on the psychological aspects, such as vows of loyalty and rebellion, which can unconsciously influence financial behavior and create a yo-yo effect in managing money. This is another insightful episode. Tune in! During this episode, you will learn about: [02:08] : Introduction to the main topic [06:25]: Example and explanation of avoiding money [10:00]: Hiding from money and practical examples [11:13]: Freezing in Financial Situations [13:58]: Why we feel unsafe with not having enough money and with having money [18:06]: Money as a lover [19:32]: Practical impact of fear of spending money [22:34]: Financial regulation and emotional stability [27:46]: Vows of loyalty and vows of rebellion [30:00]: Impact of vows on financial behavior [35:17]: Closing remarks Notable Quotes Additional money trauma resources: One on One Coaching: https://www.wealthy-money.com/coaching Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic 7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/

In this episode of the #MoneyMagic Podcast, Vangile talks to Bishal Sarkar, the highest-paid public speaking coach in India. Bishal discussing how being the first millionaire in his family changed family dynamics and how he plans to pass on healthy financial habits to the next generation. Bishal shares his inspiring story of rising from a middle-class background to becoming the first millionaire in his family. He discusses the challenges he faced, including bullying and a lack of self-confidence, and how he overcame them. Bishal emphasizes the importance of changing one's mindset and surroundings, practicing gratitude, and gradually increasing financial aspirations to achieve success. Bishal outlines three key principles that helped him significantly increase his income: money loves speed, money loves to be circulated, and money loves mission. He also highlights the importance of being mission-led rather than solely money-focused to attract opportunities and achieve financial freedom. Bishal shares a personal anecdote about how a mentor's challenge pushed him to raise his financial goals and achieve greater success. Contact Bishal: https://www.bishalsarkar.com/ https://m.youtube.com/@BishalSarkarTheExcellenceGuy This is another insightful episode. Tune in! During this episode, you will learn about: [02:08] - Introduction to Bishal Sarkar [03:42] - Bishal's background, his upbringing in a middle-class family, and the challenges he faced [09:48] - The importance of speaking and money, and how his mindset about money shifted [14:28] - The importance of gratitude and the impact it had on his life [18:36] - Three major practices that helped Bishal gain confidence and overcome self-doubt [23:06] - Bishal's experience with changing his surroundings and the impact of proximity to successful individuals [28:59] - The three principles that helped Bishal go from earning $40,000 a year to $40,000 a month. [36:29] - How achieving financial success impacted Bishal's family and how he dealt with their reactions [44:29] - Passing on financial wisdom and ensuring it benefits future generations. [56:22] - Contact Bishal Notable Quotes Additional money trauma resources: One on One Coaching: https://www.wealthy-money.com/coaching Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic 7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/

In this episode of the #MoneyMagic Podcast Vangile introduces Karen Bernetti, who shares her expertise on dealing with addiction and its impact on family dynamics and financial trauma. Karen's work focuses on helping families affected by addiction through yoga, meditation, and mindfulness. Karen's journey began with Al-Anon, a 12-step fellowship for families of those struggling with alcohol addiction. She explains how living with someone who has an addiction can lead to various psychological issues like anxiety, depression, and codependency. Karen emphasizes that families often become enablers or try to control the situation, which only exacerbates the problem. To break the cycle, she suggests mindfulness practices and seeking support through groups like Al-Anon. Karen also delves into the financial impact of addiction on families, sharing her personal experience of divorce and the ensuing custody battle. She describes how addiction can lead to financial instability, legal issues, and increased stress. Her story highlights the importance of addressing financial trauma and finding ways to heal and rebuild one's life after such experiences. To aid in healing, Karen recommends mindfulness practices such as yoga and meditation, which have been transformative in her own life. Contact Karen: https://mindfulfamilyrecovery.com/ https://serenitycircle.co/ This is another insightful episode. Tune in! During this episode, you will learn about: [02:08] - Introduction to today's guest, Karen Banetti [04:50] - Karen shares her work with addiction and family impact [05:11] - Karen's journey starting with Al-Anon [06:48] - Challenges with her husband's alcoholism [09:41] - Learning about generational alcoholism [11:06] - Discovering yoga and Nikki Myers' Yoga of 12-Step Recovery [13:20] - Psychological implications of living with addiction [17:18] - Long-term effects of living with addiction [20:11] - How addiction changes family dynamics [26:19] - Codependency and enabling behaviors [28:47] - Breaking the cycle of being the controlling one [31:10] - Finding individual paths to healing [34:18] - Financial trauma related to addiction [41:46] - Financial insecurity and money trauma [45:00] - Financial trauma from divorce and co-parenting challenges [50:48] - Personal emotional breakdown and healing journey [55:31] - Three ways mindfulness, yoga, and meditation helped [01:05:19] - Different forms of yoga and personal preferences [01:06:22] - How to reach out to Karen and work with her Notable Quotes Additional money trauma resources: One on One Coaching: https://www.wealthy-money.com/coaching Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic 7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/

In this week's episode of the Money Magic Podcast Vangile sits down with Nolitha Sinaba, a student from the Money Magic course, who shares her journey of financial transformation. Nolitha is a businesswoman managing a pig farm and in this episode she discusses how the course helped her understand the deeper, intergenerational aspects of money and trauma. She recounts her own struggles with budgeting and debt, and how she came to realize that her financial issues were rooted in more than just numbers—they were deeply tied to family dynamics and ancestral trauma. Nolitha's experience underscores the importance of addressing these underlying issues to achieve financial stability. Nolitha also talks about the importance of teaching her children about money management and generational wealth. She explains how she started having open conversations with her children about investments, savings, and financial planning, which has helped them become more financially savvy. Her story highlights the impact of breaking the cycle of financial ignorance and trauma, and the importance of modeling good financial habits for the next generation. This is another insightful episode. Tune in! During this episode, you will learn about: [02:08]: Introduction to Nolitha [03:17]: Nolitha as a soul [07:49]: How can you explain the concept of money to an alien? [10:38]: Starting to work at 22 and learning to budget [14:51]: Not talking about budgets in our networks [18:46]: The shame of not sticking to a budget [24:23]: Expectations when coming into the Money Magic course [26:55]: Talking to children about money [32:08]: Generational curses and generational blessings [35:39]: Nolitha’s experience of the Money Magic course [40:17]: Dealing with self sabotage [44:27]: Buying a farm and becoming a pig farmer [50:09]: Nolitha’s income ad savings shifts from the Money Magic course [55:03]: Three lessons that shifted things for Nolitha [01:01:09]: Contact Nolitha Notable Quotes Additional money trauma resources: One on One Coaching: https://www.wealthy-money.com/coaching Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic 7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/